2007-07-08 09:51:09 · 78 answers · asked by sugarbear8in69 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
absolutely not
2007-07-08 09:52:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
The possibility of this is what makes first dates so exciting... what if you meet someone and you hit it off so well that by the end of the evening she is willing to sleep with you. I think its every man's fantasy, but according to most of the female responses on where its just that... a fantasy!
However, I have done it and in some cases it was a good idea and the relationship went somewhere and in some cases it was a bad idea and I kinda regreted it because the girl involved was expecting more out of the relationship then just one night.
So to answer the question, I have and would do it again (in theory now, since I am married), but I would be much more selective then I was when I was younger.
Dan
2007-07-09 11:01:57 · answer #2 · answered by Dan M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I don't think it can be a black and white answer. I am totally not the kind of girl to sleep with someone on the first night I meet them. But I have...once. It all depends on the situation you both are in, the chemistry you share, and how you feel that night. Don't ever feel imprisoned by societal expectations or anything else...life is all about enjoying yourself...although you should ALWAYS ALWAYS use protection.
2007-07-08 09:56:13 · answer #3 · answered by mula012 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I have slept with guys on the first night I met them. It is sometimes difficult to wait or hold out when a guy is making me really horny. Some guys just turn me on so much that I can't wait. I am now trying to have the patience to wait however because many guys lose respect for me when I do this. I would rather be sure this is a guy I would want to date before sleeping with him. Not to mention the scare about getting pregnant with a guy I barely know.
2007-07-08 10:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Citygirl 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
What a bunch of liars he said to keep it real so i will be the first female to tell you i slept with my date the very first night we went out .Two years after the first date we were married. That was 28 years ago and we are still going strong.
2007-07-08 10:02:25 · answer #5 · answered by Teenie 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on if they are just out to have a good time or a relationship.
a good time 4 out of 5
a relationship, some they would at least wait until the 1st date and then here are some who will date a few mos. before taking that step, then there are the ones who wait until marriage.
my age, I would give the guy a chance to show me what he's about and if he might stick around a while. then, hope he's up to at least once a night.
2007-07-08 10:00:32 · answer #6 · answered by chercinbob 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
my aunt slept with my uncle the first night she met him, (she was at a bar and was drunk, lol) She ended up getting pregnant with a boy, who's adorable and 2 years later had another baby boy.) She got married to him one month before her first baby was born and they are still together now. I certainly wouldn't do that, (i'm actually only thirteen and just got my first boyfriend, and haven't even kissed him) but I don't think it is a complete sin, and I love my cousins, they're now 4 and 2.
2007-07-08 09:58:29 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HELL NO! Where do I start...you don't know enough about a person to sleep with them the first, 2nd, 3rd, or even 4th night! I would say wait until you are ina very healthy adn lengthy relatioship or better yet until you are married. Your body is a temple therefore you shouldn't be quick to just give it to anybody! AIDS for one night of pleasure??? HELL NO!
2007-07-08 09:57:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Wellll... as much as I have to say that it's NOT a good idea, I also have to admit that I slept with my husband the first night I met him.
In October we'll celebrate our 5-year anniversary.
2007-07-12 07:20:35 · answer #9 · answered by ♥≈Safi≈♥ ☼of the Atheati☼ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I did this a number of times when I was a young woman, but I wouldn't do it again. Why? Lack of intimacy, something with batteries would of been more fun in most of the instances:), and it just leaves you feeling like something is missing. Also, unlike back in the day when the main STD's were gonorrhea and syphilis, sex can now kill you. Its just not worth it.
2007-07-08 10:04:41 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
honestly you never know. ladies go out on a date to get to know someone and if the mood is right then there going to drop those panties. Me on the other hand I make a man Waite at least four months only because i like to know them before we take it to another level as for my two sisters if they are feeling you the night is going well them panties are coming off. So it depends on the ladies an there mentality and respect that they have for there selves.
2007-07-08 09:58:57 · answer #11 · answered by heaven 07 1 · 0⤊ 2⤋