There is this girl that I like. We have spent alot of time together. We get along great, and have alot in common. I have shared with her that I have feelings for her. She can never give me a straight answer of how she feels. She just says " I dont know". Man is she bad at sharing feelings with me. Six months has gone by......I did have sex with her 4 times....Everytime I ask her why she doesnt like me, her answer is I dont know. She says that everyone she talks to about it she tells them the same thing, she just doesnt know why. So what do you think, Why doesnt she like me?
2007-07-08 09:17:03 · 18 answers · asked by sweedeeeeeee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no definite answer to this question. Obviously, she tried, since she had sex with you several times, but also obviously, there's something missing. She may honestly not know why she doesn't feel more deeply for you. You can't force someone to love you. I'd suggest finding someone else. This relationship isn't going anywhere and it's just hurting and confusing you.
2007-07-08 09:21:04 · answer #1 · answered by Elaine P...is for Poetry 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u need to give her space. Some people r like that and nothing u can do or say will change that. I also dated a chick like that and same situation. She didnt want to be tied down. To this day she is still non commit to all guys she dates. Go out and have a good time but realize that is it between u too. The ball is in her court now.
2007-07-08 09:29:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she don't want to hurt your feeling on why she don't like you. Or maybe she have somethings going on with her on why she don't want a relationship right now and just don't want to tell know one. So if I was you just give her an automaton about how you feel even though you may be hurt be the income but that's better then you keep getting hurt now.
2007-07-08 09:23:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The problem is not YOU but with herself.I really don't know why she had sex with you if she doesn't LIKE you!!!If i was you i would back up for a while and let her miss me so she could really decide what she wants with you....(i would stand with someone like her) i had 3 "not sure" type boyfriends and i must tell you they were just a big loosers
2007-07-08 09:21:57 · answer #4 · answered by Rute A 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might have had people betraying her by telling her secrits to the world befor you and now she might be being verry cousious ov what she tells people so or she just could be a verry shy person sit down with her and try and ask her why she wont shere her feeling with you and say to her she should trust you and she should come round eventually good luck xxxxxxx
2007-07-08 09:22:16 · answer #5 · answered by girl_rocker92 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It will never work, familes play a big role in deciding their daughter's husband, especially given the fact that you mentioned they are "narrow minded." I would go to another party and seek out a hindu or a christian.
2016-05-17 04:00:26 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she thinks you just want sex, or maybe she thinks you smell werid or maybe she thinks you are too rich or too poor or maybe she thinks you are werid for asking her WHY so much or maybe..... I could go on forever it may be she just doesnt feel that way for you you should stop wondering why and find someone new girls are everywhere .....
2007-07-08 09:21:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's obvious... She needs more time to think. Although I find it odd she may not like you and yet she decided to have sex with you anyway. Maybe you shouldn't get into this situation.
2007-07-08 09:20:36 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure she doesn't like you, she if probably afraid of being hurt if she admits that she has fallen for you.
I'm not saying you will hurt her, but her past experience is probably that of, when you give someone your heart, you get hurt, so what better way to not get hurt, don't give anyone your heart.
2007-07-08 09:22:33 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm.. well if you guys have been friends for along time... then she probably doesn't want to f- up your all's friendship!
you know...???
all I would say is that, if you like her alot, then just let her know if she ever needs you for anything, you'll alwas be there for her, and or just try dating for a while and if it doesn't work you guys can just stay friends!
okay... i hope i have helped some... :)
2007-07-08 09:24:39 · answer #10 · answered by lrsnihe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋