Not that I've ever had one.....
2007-07-08 03:44:20 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
You may have never had one, but, by your question, you're certainly THINKING about having one.
You know, mentalities like yours is THE #1 reason I've never gotten married. I need a man I can trust - in every way. Why in the world a man would want to give his (albeit, very brief) attention, not to mention his MONEY, to a woman who, even though she's waving her butt in his lap, doesn't give a SH*T about you and could really care LESS if you live or die, is beyond me. You're just a dick with some money in your hand.
On the other hand, you have a woman in your life who you obviously cared enough about to marry. I think a lot of people these days just recite marriage vows, but those vows don't really mean anything to them.
If I learned a man I was involved with had allowed himself to be given a lap dance, it would really hurt me. It's not adultery per se, but it's certainly in the ballpark.
My suggestion: use the money you're thinking of spending getting that lap dance and buy your wife something you know she'd like or enjoy. Or take her out somewhere.
By the way, will the thrill, you are totally full of sh*t. You don't know one thing about the personal lives of anyone here, yet you seem to think you know every move we make. People like you get on my last nerve.
2007-07-08 04:02:38 · answer #1 · answered by loveblue 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To all of those holier than thou comments before me STFU! Why do you have the audacity to condemn others actions with comments such as "Its a violation of wedding vows" or It is a sin because...blah,blah,blah. Just because you are not willing to live life and have fun does not mean you can judge what others do. I know of PLENTY of married couples that go to strip clubs TOGETHER and get lap dances or sometimes more. They use it as an opportunity to do something as a couple. One more thing, id be willing to bet dollars to dough nuts that you same people condemning and smugly judging others are the same ones sneaking out to the gay clubs behind your wifes back. Same for you holier than thou dry c*nt women. You know you are the same ones doing freaky stuff behind your husbands or significant others back.
2007-07-08 11:07:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as long as you're unconscious during the dance, and wouldn't mind your partner/spouse getting a lap dance from the opposite sex as well.
2007-07-08 10:47:01 · answer #3 · answered by Kathryn™ 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
It's not adultery, but it is disrespectful to your commitment.
If the shoe was on the other foot and it was the wife who paid to have a man gyrate in her face, most husbands would find it extremely inappropriate. No different with the genders reversed.
2007-07-08 10:48:33 · answer #4 · answered by alisongiggles 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
According to your own Bible, yes, lusting over another woman, or man, is adultery. And I'm pretty sure anyone getting a lap dance is lusting.
2007-07-08 10:51:27 · answer #5 · answered by Draven 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you lust over another women[I'm guessing your a man] [a lap dance is that] the bible say that yes you have committed adultery.
2007-07-08 10:48:22 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, and if you have a wife and kids at home, you would have to give your head a shake. Both for treating a woman as an object and adultery.
2007-07-08 10:48:53 · answer #7 · answered by great gig in the sky 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
MMMM! Lap Dance!
Fun, fun, fun!
I stopped believing in adultery after the Lap Dance was invented!
2007-07-08 10:49:22 · answer #8 · answered by ☎ Rotary Dial ☎ 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋
If you lusted after this woman when you looked upon her, yes, it is the same as committing adultery.
2007-07-08 11:48:54 · answer #9 · answered by grandmotherx41979 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Your poor wife! How would she feel?!? Lusting after someone is already committing adultery with her in your heart.
2007-07-08 10:56:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋