Ladies what do you think of men these days ? ladies only please?

Question

Ok im asking the real answer,,,, the answer that doesnt require you to say an answer that will protect your image in the public,, its the internet for god sake, if there is one place to let loose and let your absolute thoughts run then its this place,,,,do you dare to give your absolute honesty ? Shoot

Answer 1

The men I know, are pretty amazing, they are, in the main, Kind, intelligent, strong, decent human beings. I think like attracts like. I also think people treat you with the respect you feel for yourself, I am not saying anything bad about ladies who get treated bad by men, it's all linked to self esteem. I get treated like a lady and I appreciate it. I'd hate to be a man. Basically there are good and bad people of both genders.

Answer 2

Well, if you asked me a yr. ago you might get a different answer. But I have a wonderful man now and am very lucky. but guys in general lately - seem to just like to play the field too much even when involved. it would be nice to see men care more about their girlfriends than they do their friends ( I do not have this issue - but have 3 brothers and work on cars for a living - I manage a shop, so I am around guys constantly and hear alot of things and talk that most girls don't get to hear) but at the same time, maybe the would if the girls were not so bitchy about everything they do. I think the cheating everyone talks about goes both ways, and that well girls need to just ease up a bit - if your guy wants to just come home and play sony or whatever - ****, let him. isn't it better than being gone, and maybe play with him. stop trying to change your guy into a mold of what you want and find someone who you have common interests with. If your guy like to party and you don't find a new guy...
I know, this will not be popular with the other girls but from what I hear from the guys I am around is that they look elsewhere because of the constant nagging and bitching going on at home. They feel they can't even come home and just be themselves. The cheating is not about looks but about finding someone they can hang out with and have fun.....

Answer 3

There are a number of ways to answer that question.

I could giggle uncontrollably and say something about guys being cute.

Or I could launch into something about society and the media and blah blah.

I guess I don't really know how to answer this question.

I mean, I want a guy. And none of that bs about how I 'need a man' for whatever. Truth is that I like myself more when I have somebody to care about like that. There's just something different about life in general when there's somebody to love romantically. My outlook changes, I feel better about myself... I have a reason to care.. etc. And it's not about sex (I don't like sex that much anyway) it's about having somebody ask you how you are and genuinely caring because they *want* to.. Yeah, friends can care, but it's not the same because there's not that romantic/highly emotional involvement.

I always wonder about the people who have a type... How do you decide on a type? You evaluate the last 10 guys in hindsight and then try to categorize? You categorize the traits you like and then don't look at any guy that isn't in your type? I don't have a type. Well, Is breathing a type? I'm more of a total package person. I want to find them physically attractive, yes, but more than that, I want to find them.. emotionally attractive..... What's their personality, what are their hobbies and interests, are they genuine, honest, etc... I might have initial interest because some guy has the Most.Amazing.Pair.Of.Green.Hazel.Eyes.Ever., but if there's not that emotional connection, looks don't matter.

I do worry that there's this... stigma?... of independant women and because of that, I'll end up alone. I don't want to be "man and wife" (how outdated is that ideal?) but I do want to be partners in a wonderful loving relationship.

Have I babbled enough? I hope what I said made sense to you...

Answer 4

I wish more were kind and gentle without also being lazy and unmotivated. It seems the kind ones I know of are also uninterested in work. It's sad the ones interested in work and providing for families and being a good role model also have to be unkind, abusive, and cold.

This is coming from a woman who is never what a guy wants anyway though, unless they want to get away with doing nothing, so perhaps my opinion is biased.

Answer 5

i strengthen up in era whilst woman relied on a guy in there existence to grant each and everything, i constantly pronounced that it became incorrect and nonetheless do... my mom became a particularly intelligent woman yet became constantly held returned because of the fact she became a woman, she watched much less qualified adult males get promoted whilst she stayed nonetheless, it truly is why i made particular that if i had any daughters they does no longer go through the comparable way, i became blessed or a number of my acquaintances pronounced cursed with 4 daughters, each and every became taught to no longer place self assurance in any guy for something they needed out of existence, yet to bypass and get it for themself`s, i could have performed something perfect because of the fact they're all successfull in what they chosen to do... and confident i instructed them regular that i enjoyed them and that i nonetheless do, so i might say that i did my bit to assist in making the popular independant woman and that i`am pleased with that, and confident they do have adult males in there stay`s, of which they have so a techniques given me 2 grandchildren, so women don`t permit any guy carry you returned from what you opt to do in existence,

Answer 6

Behind every good man there's an even better woman i like a man who treats me with the upmost respect, seems they're a dying/ rare breed.

Answer 7

men these days? well i cant put them all in 1 category, but for the most part:
not goal oriented, carreer driven, they live their life for now that one single moment, think about 1 thing only, scared of commitment, only looking for a friend for the day, basicly not valueing their life and what it means.

Answer 8

i find that its really hard to find a real honest man
every man that i have been with has been a player
i dont know why but i always seem to get myself hooked into the no gooders
im getting married to one that cheated on me once but said that he would never do it again
i have never been out with anyone that has ever not cheated on me so really i think that men are dirty players

Answer 9

i think we are all the same men and women its a human thing so theres good n bad to be had ill not search the good out ill just call it a day now xx

Answer 10

Where are the Gentleman?

Macho guys ...look like a joke...

I see old men in their 80's.I think those Men are what Men should be now.Kind, gentle,not pigs...