I am so ready to have sex and i want to do it. But my parents don't want me to have sex till marriage. We're christans that's why. I don't want to disobey my parents and god, But i really want to have sex!!! Is it very sinful to do that?? I mean i masterbate, Is that mean i already sin??????
2007-07-07 17:39:37 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The real truth is if you have to seek the answer out on "Yahoo Answers" you're simply not mature enough to have sex regardless if you wait until marriage or not.
2007-07-07 17:43:59 · answer #1 · answered by mattfromasia 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Listen to your parents. Listen to God. He knows you best. He does not put warning in the bible just for the fun of it. He is not a mean God that is trying to keep you from having fun. Satan is a liar and he is lieing to you when he said that God just does not want you to have fun. If you talked to the multitude of divorced christians, you'll find out that the majority of them have sex before marriage. God created sex and He wants you to enjoy it to the fullest in marriage. All sins have consequences built in. God does not sit in heaven and said ok so and so have sex before marriage so I will give him/her veneral disease etc... The punishement are built into the sin. But more important than the physical consequences, the spiritual and emotional consequences is far worse and there is no protection from them. You can not wear a condom and expect it to help fix the emotional and spiritual pain that follow many years after the sin. I know because I experienced it. I did not have sex before marriage, but we did everything else which displeased God just the same. My marriage to the person that I did these things with ended up in divorce ten years afterward. When God said the 2 shall be one flesh and you get a divorce, you ripped flesh apart and your heart, your soul hurts more than you can imagine. So dont do it and your sex life to your spouse will be so wonderful. Masturbation is wrong in the sense that it causes you to get used to self gratification and selfisheness
has no place in a marriage that God would bless.
2007-07-07 18:27:26 · answer #2 · answered by In Jesus I trust 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is a sin to have premarital sex. God created sex for a man and a woman in marriage. Lusting is also a sin. Most people have a very difficult time masturbating and NOT lusting. If you do not want to disobey God and you know that having sex right now is wrong, then pray to God to help you take these temptations and these thoughts away.
2007-07-07 18:22:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your mom may well be apprehensive of you getting the 'whore' acceptance. It takes one time with the incorrect person to get it. I bear in mind women having to alter highschools via fact they became the college whore, and had anybody handle them like crap. And most of the time, they weren't. that they had made one mistake at a celebration, or had an ex-boyfriend say some thing. and you could desire to understand, she would be able to continuously see you as her little infant. no longer as in you're immature, yet as interior the little infant she rocked to sleep each and every night.
2016-09-29 07:16:02 · answer #4 · answered by kottwitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To have sex is a personal choice, however by asking people if you can, it's a sign that you're not ready/mature enough to fully understand it.
2007-07-08 01:16:37 · answer #5 · answered by Phoenix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you have sex you are married
Or do you want a spouse who's been around the block a dozen times or more and COMPARES you to THEM!
2007-07-07 17:51:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christians love to make people feel guilty about sex. Enjoy yourself , be free, have courage to live your own life.
2007-07-07 18:25:49 · answer #7 · answered by brainstorm 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you an adult? If so, even if it goes against your family's standards...technically it's your life and your decision to make...
2007-07-07 17:48:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sinner!!!! Repent!!!
2007-07-07 17:46:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is just one reason why religion sucks...dude if you want to have sex just do it
2007-07-07 17:44:19 · answer #10 · answered by Bouken SocratiCat 6 · 0⤊ 3⤋