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i wish i could but i cant
im goin 2 fill it with super glue stuff again & i just want 2 die cause i cant stop & i dont want my parents 2 no again & i dont want 2 call any # if u have any online thing i will take it pleeezzzz HEEELLLLLLPPPPPPPPPPPPPPP me

2007-07-07 17:08:13 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health Mental Health

22 answers

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2007-07-07 17:11:10 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 3

First off, don't fill in your cuts w/ super glue, they will take longer to heal(unless that is what you are going for) and may even get infected... You can stop, but only if you really want to. It may seem like it is impossible now, but if you try you can do it. So your parents know that you've done it before? Thats a good thing for you, telling parents that you are a cutter is the hardest step. Maybe you need to go and get some councilling, just tell your parents that you think you need help, you dont even really have to tell them why. Some things that help me not cut: Put the object that you cut with somewhere hard to get (if it is easy to reach, you are a lot more likely to cut as to it being far away), write poetry or even a letter to someone about how you are feeling(this is my favorite and it helps me the most), read a book that does not deal with blood or cutting, call a friend(you dont have to telll them why you are calling, just have a convo w/ them), and basically anything that you like to do to distract yourself from cutting. I am also trying to get out of this trap.... i'm cutting less frequently, but still cutting nonetheless. im not even sure if i care enough to stop anymore, and that is the reason that i cant stop. If you truely want to stop you can do it.

2007-07-07 18:29:35 · answer #2 · answered by Me 3 · 0 0

What I see is that you're calling out for help because you want to stop but you can't. You either need to talk to your parents or your doctor, because you need help. Either medication, or counseling, or both.
Also, putting super glue on cuts is a bad idea, because it can just kill the cells you put it on, which only makes your body work harder to heal.
Use an antibiotic ointment and some gauze if at all possible.
I used to cut, and I have years worth of scars from it. Eventually, medication and counseling helped, but first, I had to tell my mom everything (which wasn't so bad after I found out that she had had depression in the past too), and had to actually commit myself to getting better.
Parents are people too. They're not perfect. They may be upset that you are hurting yourself, but they really just want to help you, and want you to get better, so that you can live up to your potential.

2007-07-07 17:15:36 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Seriously- how is this girl going to get any help with the majority of you all calling her a nutcase!? That's not helping!
Ok, please don't fill it with super glue stuff, that'll make it worse and it probably won't heal quickly.
And you'll feel so much better if you tell your parents. It'll be hard at first if they're scared [they aren't ever really mad at you, just really scared that you're going to be taken away from them]
But if they want to get you some help you should let them. They might be able to get you some anti depressants if you go to a doctor.
Talk to your friends, and if they don't understand, that's their problem, not yours.
Just talk to your parents- or your mom- or a family member that you trust. Or at least one that you talk to.
And don't cut the flesh!

2007-07-07 17:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by Bex 2 · 0 0

There's no quick fix.I know from my own life.Cutting and self mutilation can't be helped on-line,i've tried.Trust me you can get help,you need to talk with someone.I no the feeling you're having and as bad as it feels now it will ease up.Try to do something(other than cutting)that will take your mind off those horrible urges.I thought i'd never get better and everyone would no my secret.But i am better,it's been 2 years since i cut or harmed myself.Get rid of ALL of your cutting items(trust me i no you've got them hidden)that kinda helps.Look in your phonebook in the front pages and you'll find numbers for places to call.I no you don't want to but you can block your phonenumber and they sometimes help.I called them when i really wanted and needed to stop.Even if you stop for 1 night it always feels a bit better in the daytime.Please talk to someone,it doesn't have to be your parent's.Be safe and good luck!

2007-07-07 17:25:39 · answer #5 · answered by wendy h 3 · 0 0

Sweetie. I'm so sorry that you're in pain (mentally). You need help that can't be through this service. You sound like you want help, but are too scared to tell anyone. I'm assuming that your mom and dad know that you're a cutter? You can't stop this behavior by yourself. You need to face what's really bothering you. Why are you so numb right now? Nothing is that bad... really, but telling a teenager, well do you really listen? Write donw what's really bothering you, scream, punch a pillow, go for a run, listen to your favorite song, go to an animal shelter, play with your pet, hug your mom, smile even if you don;t want to....

2007-07-07 17:13:58 · answer #6 · answered by Walking_Food_Source 2 · 2 0

What is going on? Something has to be going on to make you start cutting in the first place. If you don't know whatis bothering you you should think about it and try to figure it out. If you figure out what has been so bad then you try to fix it and make it better. Until then you need to realize that you aren't alone. People do care about you. Your parents care. And if you can't talk to them you should find someone you can talk to about your cutting. It doesn't have to be them. It can be anyone. Just please stop cutting. It isn't worth it. I've been there and have done it I know from experience that it isn't worth it. I'm here and will talk to you.

2007-07-07 17:54:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

trust me you do not want to go there. my best friend comitted suicide and she didn't die but she was in ICU for a week. everyone of her friends including me cried their eyes out. even some tried to cut themselves becuz of her. i dont think you want your friends cutting themselves becuz of wht your doing. imagine what your parents would be like if they saw you like my friends parents saw her. that was the worst time of my life. you have an awsome life. you might not think so but after you stop cutting yourself you'll realize all the things you could have been missing out on. instead go punch a pillow or take up boxing or martial art to get all your anger out. anything is better. you deserve a chance at life and you wont get it if you keep doing this. think about the impact of your surrounding from your actions and please don't cut yourself. if you need someone to talk to u can e-mail me anytime

2007-07-07 17:20:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

the best answer i can giive u would bee to call a hotliine or somethiin ii know dey won't tell your parents .......or maybee tell your parents dat u need heelp and not jus stupiid help sum reaal help and tell dem why yourr cuttiin yourself and how feel or talk to one of your friiends talkiin to mii friends always makes mee feel better or even iif u got a pet or diiary wriite a bout no one wiil know unless u tell and yo pet can't talk sp talk to dem.....beliieve ii go these tiimes but neva wanted to cut mii self to scared but at times don't do iit jus tiink about and wen u feel like your goiin to do iit den tiink about hot many ppl your hurtiin....or maybe tiink about sumthiing dat happened dat was goo iin your lyfe


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iits shows places where u can talk to ppl that are most liikely teens and liil stuff liike dat!!

2007-07-07 17:24:02 · answer #9 · answered by shona314 1 · 0 0

ok...I used to have the same problem...well look at the alternatives: sports, music, friends, etc...If you want an online chat with a counciler go to DMLive.com. Dawson McCalster. He'll help you. And I'm not too sure about their phone number but I know that he can help you. If you have any more questions about this contact me at x_love_your_hate_x@yahoo.com
I hope that helps a little bit. My heart goes out to you.

--Rachel

2007-07-07 17:14:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

Sweetie, most of the time when you actually get to the point where you start cutting you can not control it or stop on your own. 99% of the people who have to deal with this need professional help and for some its not as easy to admit it to someone who can help you get help or even to a therpist..... are you open to getting professional help?

2007-07-07 17:36:26 · answer #11 · answered by ♫♪♫ PINKY ♫♪♫ 5 · 0 0

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