Question to women age 35 & under.....How do you feel about older fitter women getting younger guys?

Question

Not trying to upset you or anything here girls, but I have a friend who's just turned 52, She's absolutely gorgeous & easily turns the heads of any guy age 20 & over.
She's got a great body, looks after herself very well & easily passes for 35 yrs old if not younger. She hasn't had any cosmetic surgery either.
She was telling me that younger women on finding out her age are quite shocked & say how lovely she is & they hope they look like her when they reach her age.
But as soon as the guys (under 30 yrs old) start to hit on her rather than them, they become really b!tchy, even accusing her of lying about not having had cosmetic surgery & saying the guys are gross & ugly anyway, when not 15 minutes before were saying how they wished they could get a date with them.

I was wondering how you younger women feel knowing that a growing number of "older" women are fitter than you are & the fact that your guy could well find a woman old enough to be your mother, much sexier than you are.

Although some females are nasty to older more gorgeous women, the fact remains that their guys would still go with an older woman if they found her sexually attractive. Like females can be horrible about an older womans age, but it wouldn't stop a guy choosing her over them would it.
I was just wondering how that made you feel. will you try hard to look just as good when you get older?

Plus how does it feel knowing that you don't just have competition from women your own age & under, but you also need to be watching that your guy doesn't stray towards the older woman too.

Natalie Jones......trust me, I've checked out your profile hun & you wouldn't stand a chance - who said anything about my friend flirting with younger guys, I said that they hit on her. Actually you're very wrong about younger guys only wanting her for sex, she's been married & very happily to a 27 yr old guy for the past 6 years now & they've been together for nearly 8 yrs. So how wrong could you be. My friend doesn't have a bad reputation at all. She's faithful to her husband.
Have to disagree though, I did check out your profile & there's no way you're better looking or fitter than my friend.....& you're only 24.

Answer 1

Eleven out of ten guys like young women. Whenever they say they like older women, they are just being nice because that is the polite thing to say.

Answer 2

Actually the way you ask it is a tad mean but I think good for her.Seriously Ive never met a man worth fighting over and there are plenty to go around if my guy wants somebody else I always have a new guy in short order.I have nothing against plastic surgery either and by the time Im fifty I plan to have it all relined if i need it.That said so what if a 50 year old is in better shape than me.In this world there will always be someone smaller,cooler,and prettier but that said theres only one me in the whole world so why get bent out of shape?By the time Im fifty she will be 70 and thats when if she is lucky enough to be alive she will really start feeling her age.Time is the great equalizer and you unfortunately sound very vain and petty.Beauty is on the outside and the inside too.If all you have to offer is a pretty package they will be very disappointed when the open it up and find a big empty box.

Answer 3

My mom is turning 45 and looks 25 or younger and she attracts a lot of attention. I think we both attract equal attention though, because we look a lot alike, but have totally different personalities. We're 30 yrs apart in age, so we attract totally different eras. My mom has been with my dad for 15 almost 16 yrs now, and if she wanted to she could get any guy at any age and I don't mind at all.

Answer 4

I have this exact scenario. My stepmom is 54 and looks better than any of my friends. Fit, pretty, national champion in her physical culture club. She wins a lot. I know the others are jealous and biitch about her. Shes had no surgery at all. She reguarly exercises, eats properly and not too much, she uses plain old nivea, no fancy craap... She is a regular stiflers/ soccer mom. I truly believe she is like this is because she is genuinely a happy person. Kind and accomodating. She doesnt put others down and encourages them in all ways. The happier you are the more beautiful you are to everyone else. Good luck to em I say.... Sure sometimes i get jealous or annoyed, but then again, im the one sitting on the couch eating pizza and drinking beer. Shes at pilates as we speak...

Answer 5

I'm 50 and I get a lot of attention from younger guys.

They don't realise how old I am but I think its because older women are more confident, have a personality and have lots to talk about!

Young girls spend that much time being introspective and forget there is a big wide world out there!

I'm not the most beautiful person and I don't have a fantastic figure but I'm not afraid to be myself = so maybe that is it!!

Answer 6

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder.

"I was wondering how you younger women feel knowing that a growing number of women..." I think you are being a bit harsh on us girls when we already have every form of media telling us how we should look.

Please sir she had a long time and a lot of experience to know just how to get what she wants out of life.

I hope would not compare your gf to her.(If you have one)

Me personally,I would not be jealous of her looks,body etc.but instead ask her what's her secret and for advice on how to look that good when I turn 52.

I am 33yrs

Answer 7

Hi, you shouldnt worry about women who have to change the way they look to get a man, of any age,me personally,im not attracted to fit, faked out model type women. i like women who are natural or have some weight and lets life take its course,however i am young, 26 but i like women older than me, say 30s its only cause of maturity.not anything to do with fitness,im not even attracted to fit women,and i do find a mature mind to be sexy whether shes younger or older than me..I know im not the only guy in america that feels that way...

Answer 8

Personally, cos I am in my 40s I find it refreshing to hear such good news for us older women. I was shocked actually to find out just how many younger men are attracted to older women - I thought they were just been kind to to me as an old woman - turns out they all like the idea of 'experience' and better conversations (not my words). I am not interested in younger men myself and am happy to send them on their way. I feel like their mother even if I don't look like it. Its a personal taste thing - I just like men of my own age as I have a shared history with my own generation.

Answer 9

I think its inspiring and wonderful that older women can and do look after themselves so that they can meet up with younger people and still be attracted by them
but Im confused as to why older men are so much more aware of how to treat women with dignity and respect

Answer 10

It dosent bother me at all ! I mean thats great women take care of themselves and look that good as they age. Also I like older men they can be in better "shape" then guys my age and also more mature so it all works out nicely !