will i ever find her?

Question

i'm a 27 year old lesbian, just wondering if i'm the only lesbian that seems like she'll never find that special woman?

Answer 1

Based on my limited observations, most lesbians and bi-sexual women are very attractive to beautiful. And, face facts. they want girls that are also beautiful.

However, there are a few unattractive lesbians. Look for one of them.

Answer 2

You are definitely not the only one. I wonder the same thing from time to time and even wonder if there is a possibility I could try to consider dating men again, because I'm constantly turning them down; they're nice but I'm just not interested. Most women I meet that are my age are not looking for a real relationship (you know what they want) and I'm not into that. I want much more than something physical with someone I can't talk to. I feel exactly where you are coming from. I just hope I don't still feel this way in five years.

Oh yeah, someone suggested the online thing, lol. Let me know how that works out for you.

Answer 3

Hey, at least you've come to the conclusion that you want to rule out men! That in itself is an accomplishment! If you're in a city such as SF, NY or LA you can definitely find Lesbian Bars and hang outs so it should be easier. 27 is young, now-a-days most people get married in their early 30's, at least, that's my plan at the moment.

Answer 4

Everyone has a soul mate. Weather they're old or young or they live in a diff rent country. Just keep looking and I'm sure you will find that special someone.

Answer 5

GIRL! you are in your PRIME! there's no harm in playing with miz-right-now while you wait around for miz-right. it doesn't matter how old you are or who you're into -- EVERYONE feels/has felt like they are doomed to be alone forever, even the ones who do eventually find true love (after true love, after...) the trick is to stop looking for her! you'll find one another if you both take care of yourselves in the meantime. don't focus on being alone, focus on how loveable you are and on how grateful you are to be and have and do what you are, have, and do! and cut out the idea that there is only one for you. there's a lot of women you can connect with. sometimes we have to kiss frogs to find a queen. don't hold out on love in any form just cuz you've idealized what one grand experience SHOULD be. there's at least 5 wonderful women willing to date you right under your nose. you're just too focused on the all or nothing "one true love or spinster" syndrome.

Answer 6

I'm a straight man but I feel the same way. I wish I had some words of wisdom for you but all I can say is she's out there. Keep looking.

Answer 7

I'm not a lesbian, but I'm sure all people of all sexual orientations start asking themselves if they'll find that special someone. I sure do.

Answer 8

Theres always hope. You should cheak out the dating sites. Your also not the only one that feels that way. Everybody does at one piont weather they are straight, bisexsual, gay or ,like in your case, lesbian.

Answer 9

Screw everyone on here telling her that you're against her orientation! Who cares if you are, you don't need to tell the world so you can seem cool. It's not! And yes, you will. Just at your own time.

Answer 10

everybody is ment to be with somebody you wont find her she'll come to you just wait it out she'll come some day. i had to wait for they right guy to find me and he did and we've be together for over a year. just wait might be soon!