should i be mad or let it go???

Question

ok i have this friend...and he was over at his friends house...he was being a total creep to me...and he s usually really nice and all soo i was talking to him and he was sayin crap that was makin me really mad...so i hung up on him and he called me like 10 times i am didn't answer...so he texted me 2day and he was all hey and i was like i really don't want to talk to you and he was all what did i do...and then i told him he nose what he did and he was like no i really don't and he was acting like the hole thing never happend...should i still be mad or should i let it go

Answer 1

sounds like he likes you. ive been in a similar situation. his insecurities about it probably cause him to say that stuff. but its really immature. i say you should let it go.

Answer 2

Ok you should let it go this time and if he does it again then talk to him about it and tell him if it happens again then there will be consequences! See guys act different around other guys when there talking to girls so that the Friends don't think there wiped or gettin a lil more girly than any guy should! He doesn't mean it he just wants everyone to be happy but you just didn't get lucky this time!

Answer 3

I think that you should think about why you are mad at him. Then if you are still mad then tell him why you are mad at him and let him know. But don't yell at him because he will be less likely to listen if you do. Tell him why he made you mad but then let it go. It is not healthy to hold grudges on the inside, trust me, so talk to him. And remember the situation could probably be a lot worse than it is so try not to blow it out of proportion. I hope everything goes ok, God bless.

Answer 4

Tell him you willing to give him another chance at your friendship, but this is IT.
Even if he protests as to " what did I do Crap..".. let him know you not making up stories on what happened.
Tell him this was real enough because you have come up with this " last chance for friendship proposal."..
Anymore of this Insane behavior and you deep six- ing your friendship with him.
Maybe he will get the Hint, but then again maybe not.

Answer 5

Wow I bet you talk really fast, OK so you haven't explained to him what it was he said that upset you, your going to need to do this so that he knows what not to do in the future. Once that's out of the way let it go but be prepared to drop him if he does it again.

Answer 6

i think that how you feel is appropiate

for now that is



i think that you should allow some days to cool off if you still feel heated up, but eventually you should talk cuz well thats what friends do
if you talk but he continues with this charade you might want to consider if he is really your friend or not

there is my 2 cents
good luck
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Answer 7

He's crushing on you. Sometimes guys push you away by being a creep to you as a protective mechanism. It's fear of getting to close. Then, we realize it was stupid.

Answer 8

I would explain to him why I had not taken his calls. let him explain why he acted like he did. Then I would let it go. But I would make sure that I voiced my feelings so that it wouldn't happen again.

Answer 9

I believe in forgivness but dosent mean you have to forget.
Some people deserve second chances. Go on your instinct its usually right

Answer 10

You both seem very immature to me. So, let it go and be friends. Sounds like a kid's fight.