She has never asked the rest of the family to keep it quiet.
Can we mention it whenever we like?
2007-07-07 13:16:07 · 6 answers · asked by silvercomet 6 in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
And why would you feel the need to mention it????
2007-07-07 13:29:55 · answer #1 · answered by Sabrina(Susananita) 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think I'd ASK her what SHE thinks.
As for those who wonder why you'd WANT to mention her past employment, I can imagine saying:
Don't make stupid remarks about strippers, buddy. That's what [Doris] used to do, and you know what SHE's like!
or
Their job doesn't always prove what kind of person somebody is, you know. My [sister-in-law] worked as a stripper for years, and I mean, she's not any different now than she was then!
or
Yeah, [Marcia] really is in great shape. She used to be a stripper, and she's kept up her diet and, well, DIFFERENT exercise . . .
Etc.
2007-07-07 17:28:53 · answer #2 · answered by georgetslc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why it would come up in conversation.
I think it would really be like airing out someone else's dirty laundry, if you get my drift. Personally, I wouldn't discuss it unless she herself has discussed it with the person. Even still I would consider it a little bit rude and uncouth.
2007-07-07 13:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Sparkles_65 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Uh, no. You should never talk about a person's personal life, period. She can tell them herself if she likes.
2007-07-07 14:11:09 · answer #4 · answered by Keyring 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Ask her - she is your family.
2007-07-07 13:28:05 · answer #5 · answered by Pacifica 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to?
2007-07-07 15:05:38 · answer #6 · answered by maigen_obx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋