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2007-07-07 12:22:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture Religion & Spirituality

My mom had 2 miscarriages.

1.Twins...
2.One baby.

She is Catholic.

2007-07-07 12:26:39 · update #1

My mom had 2 miscarriages.

1.Twins...
2.One baby.

She is Catholic.

2007-07-07 12:26:40 · update #2

My mom had 2 miscarriages.

1.Twins...
2.One baby.

She is Catholic.

2007-07-07 12:26:41 · update #3

My mom had 2 miscarriages.

1.Twins...
2.One baby.

She is Catholic.

2007-07-07 12:26:42 · update #4

My mom had 2 miscarriages.

1.Twins...
2.One baby.

She is Catholic.

2007-07-07 12:26:45 · update #5

Wow, it copied a bunch of times, sorry.

2007-07-07 12:27:36 · update #6

19 answers

He doesn't. Sometimes things happen for a reason. Just because something went bad doesn't mean that you go on blameing him. If you lost a child, you may go on to have many more!

2007-07-07 12:26:46 · answer #1 · answered by redbone 3 · 1 3

I don't know the big answer to this one. But I do know that after being alive and going through several really dark spots in my life that I have gained so much more then I ever thought possible.

And yes, I have had a miscarriage. It was very hard to deal with, especially when the man I was seeing at the time and thinking of marrying decided he couldn't handle it. So I was left alone to deal with the aftermath of that and of being disabled and growing more disabled by the day.

In the end it made me a much stronger person - into more of a fighter then I was already. I became deeper in my faith and because I didn't marry that man I ended up with who I was meant to be with.

Like I said, I don't know the full reasons why miscarriages are allowed. But there is a reason. I promise, there is.

2007-07-07 12:32:29 · answer #2 · answered by noncrazed 4 · 2 0

God enables miscarriages to ensue on the grounds it somewhat is a organic technique of the human physique and He does not intervene with that. I had a miscarriage and that i comprehend my infant exchange into alive approximately an hour in the previous as a results of fact I heard its heartbeat. yet some thing exchange into incorrect, i exchange into bleeding, and that they could no longer quit it. For some reason my physique rejected this new type in it and expelled it. I took me some years to settle for it and that i've got prayed that my infant is interior the hands of the Lord. The existence has a soul. As a Catholic i'm taught and have self assurance that God placed a soul into the fertilized egg on the 2nd of theory. So even in the previous the toddler is born, this is soul is acquainted with its author. perchance this is purpose is purely to be. To have taught the mothers and fathers a lesson, to coach the mothers and fathers what love truly is, to love an unknown toddler. perchance the newborn had a deformity or an ailment that could have brought about it to be stillborn or die the day it exchange into born or to stay with super suffering and as a exchange of letting that ensue, God permit it pass in the previous. this is mostly a tricky ingredient to handle. perchance your uterus can no longer carry existence. perchance there is a few thing incorrect with it while it types the lining it desires to hold a fertilized egg. perchance there is a few thing incorrect with the eggs or the sperm. I have no theory. yet i comprehend 2 women human beings that have 2 and 5 miscarriages and the two have had one and 3 born toddlers that are healthful. as quickly as I informed my son that I miscarried as quickly as, he had asked if the soul in that first infant is the soul in him. i'm uncertain, on the grounds that is seen reincarnation, and the Catholic Church teaches against that. yet I did tell him that if I hadn't miscarried, he does not be here. So perchance there exchange into some thing incorrect with the 1st infant and God would desire to shelter him/her greater helpful than i'd desire to, and He gave me my son to look after as a exchange.

2016-10-01 02:40:31 · answer #3 · answered by arleta 4 · 0 0

I don't know how old you are but I am guessing you are a teen-ager. The older you are when you carry a baby the more chances there are for birth deformities. If your mother was approaching 40 when she miscarried there is a chance the fetus or fetuses were in trouble. The misinterpretation that God allows anything to happen this tragic is wrong. Your mother may not of had the ability to carry these babies to full term and nature took it course.

2007-07-07 12:42:50 · answer #4 · answered by ARLENE H 4 · 0 0

I'm not here to answer for God but... maybe it wasn't God at all. Maybe it was natures way of saving a lot of more heart ace, possibly pain for the child if it did make it. Or maybe it was so week from something genetic. My sister lost a twin once and her Dr. felt something was wrong with it being weaker. When I try to find reasons why God does things I just ask him and really pay attention to my surroundings, and I normally can find an answer that makes sense. Maybe not in a week but after he sees I trust there was a reason. Somethings it took ME two years to see the answer. But you have to trust first.

2007-07-07 12:41:54 · answer #5 · answered by Animalfriend 3 · 1 0

Miscarriages are a biological process that prevents the birth of severely damaged babies. Are you asking why God doesn't make all people perfect? In fact, no-one is perfect, and therefore we should expect that some imperfections would be sufficiently severe to cause death before birth, just as some imperfections cause death at every other stage of life. The physiology of Catholics isn't any different from that of anyone else.

2007-07-07 12:34:35 · answer #6 · answered by PaulCyp 7 · 3 1

God doesn't have any choice but to "allow" whatever we "allow" by our sin and ignorance and being part of a fallen nature. God is all good and everything from Him is good. We live in a less-than-perfect world and according to our less-than-perfect bodies and processes and generational patterns, WE are the ruler over our lives. Some people have NOT given God their life and let HIM make all their choices.
Sometimes it's just a natural happening that you will NEVER figure out,..., but God is grieved with you. He never sends life and then take it away!
Job (in the book of Job) says that God gives and God takes away, but that was the truth of what he said, but not the truth about God. God GIVES and He doens't take away!

2007-07-07 12:33:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

Suffering and death of all kinds are part of what is called "the human condition". It includes being subject to suffering caused by our own mistakes, by others' mistakes and by chance. (Miscarriage, statistically, is almost certainly chance.) Why does God allow us to experience the human condition? Why are we living a physical life, on the level of animals, when we have minds, souls or whatever you call it, to envision and to desire something better for ourselves and our loved ones?

Are you asking the question because of personal experience with miscarriage? If so, you have my sympathy. The Bible doesn't tell us what happens to unborn babies that die, but people who have had dreams of "heaven" say that it's full of babies. My sister had a dream, after my father died, of him holding the two miscarried babies who would have been our siblings. But as far as I know, there's no theology on the subject.

2007-07-07 12:34:52 · answer #8 · answered by Fiona J 3 · 0 0

I would suggest you read the book of Job in the Bible. There you see a story of how it is satan who is the one who brings destruction in people's lives.(You can't just believe in God and ignore satan).

Jesus taught that: "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." (John 10:10)NIV

God has written certain instructions in the Bible and has given certain people spiritual giftings and understanding to help us receive healings. Unfortunately, not everyone has learned these things, including many in positions of spiritual leadership."My people are destroyed from lack of knowledge". (Hosea 6:4)NIV

You say your Mom is a Catholic. Many Catholics like to watch Benny Hinn. She may find answers and comfort from learning from him or she could try the 700 Club.

Also, preborn children are of course without sin and go directly to heaven so at least you know where they are.

2007-07-07 12:52:12 · answer #9 · answered by nicky 3 · 0 0

its not about whether or not god allows these things to happen...its what your soul *or the soul of the baby that is coming to this earth chooses the length of its exsistance* we have a vast amount of thought and options before we enter this body and some souls only choose to live just a few minuets...some choose to live long and painfull lives...but the point is....it all by choice. and of course god will back up the choises you make no matter if you are in this reality or another..its also about experience of the soul. the soul will never know itself complietly if it does not experience itself in the flesh form. we are all constantly evolving...

2007-07-07 12:31:46 · answer #10 · answered by ~testube Jebus~ 4 · 2 0

as being some one who have lost to babies like this before 21 i will tell you god calls babies home i still never got over that either and i never got pregnant again i still long for it i have a Friend who had about ten but she finally had a baby 7 months ago it took her 10-14 years please don't give up

2007-07-07 12:34:39 · answer #11 · answered by mother love 4 · 0 0

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