2 months ago, my boyfriend decided to stop calling me... for a week or two. He never returned my one phonecall... and then I found pictures of him with another girl.... You have no idea how crappy I felt, how betrayed I felt, how heartbroken I was. We were together for over a year and continuously talked to me about marriage. And he goes and does this to me? You think you know someone after 2 1/2 years......... Well, I couldn't even contact him. I had to break-up with him over an email... and after 2 months, not a single word....
I was very angry with my bf at the time for doing what he did to me. And I think the anger really helped me move on. It made me stronger. I learned A LOT through my relationship. I realized so many things I put up with that he did to me. I learned not to take CRAP from ANYBODY anymore and to stand up for myself. We all go through experiences FOR A REASON. It was just meant to happen.
Realize that God has a plan for you... and that He has so much in store for you. God has given me so much hope and strength, that I know He will bring me the right one in His time. He's blessed me with so many other things that I should be happy about. And I AM happy... I'm grateful.
Just be happy that you have it good... it could be worse.
I was watching the show Cheaters... a woman just got cheated on and she said, "You need to let go of the $1 bill in your hand so that God can give you the $100 bill you truly deserve."
If God brings you to it, He'll bring you through it.
And God does not take something away from you without giving you something better.
It will be okay. I promise. ♥
2007-07-07 09:27:54
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answered by ( Kelly ) 7
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answered by ? 3
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Only time mends a broken heart. Sorry.
2007-07-07 09:25:20
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answered by Anonymous
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I was seeing someone for the past four months, and out of the blue he backed off. We spent the weekend in Vegas and he treated me like a "friend". I've been crying all day and that's ok, I need to remind myself of his behavior and truly just allow myself to grieve. I can sleep at night knowing that I was good to him.
2016-01-25 13:22:27
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answered by Tricia 1
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New girl friends, time, more new girlfriends.Prayer is good, cause you need to ask for the right one, this time and be thankful or what you have.
2007-07-07 09:31:06
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answered by kim 7
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No quick answer to that, you need to move beyond, you should surround yourself with friends, outings, and just get back into life.
2007-07-07 09:26:36
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answered by ♥ ♥Be Happi♥ ♥ 6
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do something that keeps your mind off of it.
something fun and spontaneous. with friends or by yourself either way it works.
2007-07-07 09:26:52
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answered by codereesa 3
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Find a better gf/bf
2007-07-07 09:26:32
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answered by Strong chick 2
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classic country, , hank, johnny, conway, gatlin brothers, etc,spicy food, and if your of legal age, tequila. and of course time.
2007-07-07 09:26:58
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answered by Anonymous
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