Is he using me?

Question

Is he =useing me???
he says that h eloves me and really likes me but I see him flirting wit other girls. Is he using me?

Answer 1

I believe your correct*...

Answer 2

Well, he may not be using you if he is just flirting with other girls. If he says he loves you, I hope he means he really loves you. Maybe, he doesn't realize that he is flirting. Are you sure that he's flirting? He could be unsure of his feelings of you, but then he wouldn't say he loved you. The question you need to ask yourself is, "What is he using me for?". Do you know what he could be using you for? Did you tell him you loved him too, because what kind of jerk goes around flirting with other girls when he is already in love with somebody and she loves him too? Actually, he probably is using you, based on the facts, but you should talk to him. Tell him what you think and what you saw, and you can probably tell if whatever he says is lying or not. If he really loves you, he'll tell you the truth about what was going on and if you really love him, you'll listen. If he is using you, you should dump him as soon as possible and don't ever let him do that to you again. I hope this was helpful, if it wasn't, sorry.

Answer 3

It depends on what kind of flirting he says love but there are really only three things men have to do for love ever thing else is a bonus we must do the three P's protect provide project you seem to have an issue with project if he won't say he loves you in front of a crowed than yes you are being used.

Answer 4

Maybe he's just a flirty-type person, but I'd watch out bc I had the same problem with a guy. He told me he liked me, but I ALWAYS saw him with other girls. If he really liked you, I don't see why he'd be flirting with other girls other than trying to make you jealous. Tell him that you like him and that you want to be the only girl that he's flirting with. If you let him disrepsect you like this, he will continue to do so. If he cannot quit flirting with other girls, would you really want to be with this kind of guy? I sure wouldn't. Men are pigs. Mark my words, but good luck!

Answer 5

Sorry, but I need more information from you in order to make a decision one way or the other. He could be telling the truth, or not. He could be a naturally flirty kind of person who doesn't mean anything behind it, or he does. I understand how this could bother you. Ask him directly if he does love you, because all the flirting he does hurts your feelings. Ask him to stop if he is in love with you, but be gentle and sincere about it.

Answer 6

Of course he's using you if he says he loves you then why is he flirting with other girls. HE'S USING YOU!!!!!!!!! He's just doing that because he think he knows that if he don't get the other girl he'll always have you AND I know you do not want to be a his backup.I think you should dump him and find somebody else who says they love you and you can tell that they mean it too. GOOD LUCK!!! I Wish the best for you.

Answer 7

Maybe hes super friendly. Ive been called a flirt and involve with a wonderful man. He doesn't accuse me of lirting because hes confidant in himself,and in our relationship, that I do love. He might not be aware that it bothers you. But then again, if you love him, and he loves you, you shouldn't be so insecure. That will make him stray

Answer 8

Probly if he's flirting wilth other girls then u need to say sumthin.

Answer 9

Yes. Based on this compelling bit of evidence there is no doubt.

Answer 10

he is just trying to keep u as an option...dont fall for him. he will end up breaking your heart.