i have started a fight with my boyfriend of 5 years relationship as he was avoiding me .... i got fed up and smsed him that i don't want our relationship back again.... i just wanna talk with him to understand the reasons for avoiding me.... he said that he wanted also to tell me something but not now....ummmm i really miss him so much and i don't want to lose him.... i know he must be mad now at me ... HOW can i get my boyfriend again?
2007-07-07 09:09:46 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Give him a couple of days and then send him a text or leave him a voice-mail telling him how you were thinking of some really good memory you two have together (actually recount the story, make it sound good). If he doesn't call you, call him the next day, and tell him you miss him and still really care for him (don't come across as too needy, just say it with meaning). Don't prolong the call if he doesn't want to talk, just let him think about everything. If he does want to talk, let him talk and get everything off his chest (later you can tell him your side). Good luck!
2007-07-07 09:23:54 · answer #1 · answered by wwwordsmiff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He might be cheating. Someone else could be having fun with him. He misses the fun yall used to have so he is out there tryin to get that feeling again. Stop arguing. Tell him how much you miss and love him. Plan a special date. Do something new and exciting every week. Get that fire back he misses you.
2007-07-07 09:20:31 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
After a 5 year relationship, why is he avoiding you now? Ask yourself if you want to be playing this game with him. Have more pride within yourself to let him know that after 5 years, you don't deserve to be treated like that, and that you deserve to be respected more than that, too. If he is treating you this way after that long of a relationship, why would you want him?
Good luck.
2007-07-07 09:17:38 · answer #3 · answered by Theresa F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunn, tell him how you feel. I've been in a relationship for 7 years, may not make me an expert, but what I do know is that relationships are build on trust! If he's not going to listen to you're side of the story. Screw him! He's not worth fighting for!
2007-07-07 09:18:49 · answer #4 · answered by Lilly 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you need to find out why he's avoiding you first then talk to him and go from there. But if he's ready to move on he will tell you and I don't think he will be back. So talk with him and find out why?
2007-07-07 09:15:49 · answer #5 · answered by Always ready for anything 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just ask him! If he doesn't have the balls to explain why he's been avoiding you then you're better off without him.
2007-07-07 09:17:27 · answer #6 · answered by buttercup26 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree with JoLynne M, but if you really love him and really want to be with him then you have to find a way to talk to him. If he doesn't want to listen then its his loss.
2007-07-07 09:18:18 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
call him and tell him you are sorry and u still love him. tell him the truth. if he dosent want to listen to u then get one of his friends to tell him 4 u.
2007-07-07 09:15:42 · answer #8 · answered by babie_chick5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow11 grow up and move on. their are alot of fish in the sea baby.
2007-07-07 09:15:17 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honey29, Hon all you can do is be honest !
2007-07-07 09:15:04 · answer #10 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋