I started talking to this guy, and when have been talking for about a while now, and he asked me out but when it came time to go on the date he back out. I think he is mad at me because he found out that i am still a "V". Did i do something wrong
2007-07-07 06:25:22 · 8 answers · asked by Callie B. 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think he's mad that you're a virgin, just a little disappointed, maybe he thought you were in to it, just move on and don't let anyone make you feel bad about your virginity,
It's one of the most important things to hang on to and should never be given away just because you think it will make some guy like you more, it's more important than that.
Maybe this guy just didn't want to be your first, maybe he respected the fact that you haven't been with anyone and didn't want to taint you. That's not a bad thing, a lot of guys would have said and done anything they could have to take it from you.
You didn't do anything wrong, just move on.
2007-07-07 06:33:36 · answer #1 · answered by I'm Here 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first i want to say dont feel bad that youre a virgin. everyone starts out the same way and if you think that is the reason he backed out of your date because he wouldnt get laid..then he isnt the guy for you. i dont care how much you think you care for him..hes not the one. real men wait till youre ready if they truly care about you.
i hope he gave you a good excuse for breaking your date but since you think it was because your a "V" as you put it..then hes a dog and dont get to involved with this guy..in fact..id end it now..theres more fish in the sea!
2007-07-07 13:39:28 · answer #2 · answered by sweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its ok being a virgin is a good thing....I would be happy if I found out if the person I am going out was a virgin because it would say that she is a resposible person and she is not careless with herself.
2007-07-07 13:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by T-unit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, there is nothing wrong with that. Be proud of you!
As for ole' boy, he may have gotten cold feet and backed out. Don't stress about it.
Be blessed.
2007-07-07 13:30:02 · answer #4 · answered by Decent 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Callie B, My dear God bless you for still being a "V" ! If that is why the guy backed out then he must have only wanted one thing. You definetly deserve better ! Please stay pure until your honeymoon ! Jesus loves you and so do I.
2007-07-07 13:41:05 · answer #5 · answered by lonewolf 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no way. get over him, if he cant accept that youre a "v" hes not worth your time. someone will love you for who you are and your wonderful morals. you should be proud to be a "v".
2007-07-07 13:28:06 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no just made the dick realize how hard he was going to have to work.no easy slide into first base. Lose him
2007-07-07 13:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by brian m 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You did nothing wrong. Being a virgin is respectable, and if he cannot appreciate that then he is an idiot.
2007-07-07 13:27:54 · answer #8 · answered by princess m 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋