2007-07-07 06:09:08 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
No. It's not okay. He wouldn't be thrilled with you hanging with a bunch of dudes either.
2007-07-07 11:33:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you consider "excessive"? You have to be able to discern between being jealous/possessive or being married to someone who is basically a womanizer/egotist. There's nothing wrong with him having a bunch of female friends. But if you are under the impression that it's all about him seeking female attention for ego flattery or because he want to dip his wick in more than one spot, that's something else.
2007-07-07 10:04:33 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men can have women friends and women can have men friends and it's no big deal...so long as they're friends and not lovers.
For the record, my husband has a large number of female friends and I have several very good friends who happen to be men. We laugh when someone tries to tell us we shouldn't have these friends. We love our friends and they love us. We also trust each other.
Most of all, neither one of us would ever consider cheating on the other.
2007-07-07 06:26:43 · answer #3 · answered by gileswench 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys can tell you all day long that it's okay for them to have women friends. But truth be told, men are sexually agressive in their thoughts and they are also more visual in their sexuality. Which means when a guy is with a woman, he is going to think about sex with her. He can't help it. Especiallly with women that he likes. (which includes friends).
Is that okay?? To a limited degree, probably. But I wouldn't want my husband spending a great deal of time with any woman. Also men and women want and need different things from friends. So to me it would be a little unnatural for a man to have excessive women friends. Sounds like a guy trying to get his ego stroked.
2007-07-07 06:19:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
There is absolutely nothing wrong with having male and female friends respectively. The key is that neither are overly friendly with friends of the opposite sex. (you know what I mean by overly friendly). but you should be able to have friends without the jealousy issue coming into play.
2007-07-11 04:17:22 · answer #5 · answered by kystarlyte_kystarlight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the number of "excessive" people. If it interferes with the marriage because it's always a party, then yes, it's bad.
2007-07-07 06:18:19 · answer #6 · answered by Jess 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No, once you are dating seriously, mature, engaged and married - you realize that neither of those is a good idea. You now have one another, and a very different sort of life.
2007-07-07 10:03:28 · answer #7 · answered by Lydia 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some, sure. But excessive, I would not be ok with that.
2007-07-07 06:13:31 · answer #8 · answered by fizzy stuff 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
As long as you truely trust that person
(your bf or husband for instance)
You have nothing to worry about. I have a few female friends and at first my girlfriend dident like it but she began to trust me more and more and now shes fine with it.
2007-07-07 06:17:25 · answer #9 · answered by Katie 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yea just not like a boyfriend but its ok 2 have friends that r men
2007-07-07 06:15:48 · answer #10 · answered by xc2013 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋