boy help.........?

Question

Ihave friend named Sean that sorta asked me out. He said hey I think you should come to Mount Claire's dances next year. (that's the highschool hes going to next year) I said maybe and told him that I wanted to be friends and nothing more. You can never tell if he's kidding or if he is serious. I thought that he was just inviting me as a friend. That was in April. In June my friend told me that she thought that Sean was finally over me. I never knew that he really cared as much as she told me he did. I've tried to talk to him since I found out, but he keeps ignoring my ims. He just signs off. I never see him anymore. He's blowing me and my youth group off. (He is the founder of the freakin group!!!!) I'm just so sick of him. I want to apologize for turning him down. I didn't even know he was serious when he asked me! What should I do?? I'm trying to talk to him, but he's blowing me off. I'm at the point that I don't really give a s.hit anymore.

Answer 1

He's hurt. He didn't handle the rejection well. Maybe just leave him be and let him start contacting you when he's over it because he isn't over it right now.

Then again he could be just trying to make you feel like the bad guy by blowing you off and ignoring you. Some people like to be the victim to get your sympathy and then maybe you'll change your mind...

You seem to be getting along just fine with your life, so just go about your day as normal, be happy, enjoy yourself, leave him to sulk.

Answer 2

fallen-angel, Sweety if he is too imature to acknowledge you set your sights elsewhere. When you are young or any age being friends is the most important part of being somthing more !

Answer 3

hey yeah thats always tough.
maybee he just needs someone
there with him. since it might be
kinda tough to go to a new school.
which it is. i would go and you can
always back out of it. if you are friends
he will understnad