my boyfriend and i have sex all the time. we love eachother. but we always end up just going at it. i've always dreamed of us sharing a romantic evening, a hotel room, rose petals, nice and slow etc...i don't really understand though...do you make the whole thing slow and sensual? or do you speed up like normal sex after awhile...or do you just keep going slowly until you get off?...help i feel stupid, can someone explain truely making love to me, not just sex..
2007-07-07 06:04:57 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Making love is simply a shared connection with each other. It is something that you feel. It is not the actions, the props, or the noises. The best connection I have is making eye contact, it brings more emotions out. You can have a slow, sexual act with it only being sex. Making love is the connection of emotions that you and your partner feel during the whole ordeal.
2007-07-07 06:09:28 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are in love with the person, and are having sex, than it IS making love. Do it however you please and whatever makes it most enjoyable for you both. However i may suggest that often times making love can feel alot more romantic if you spend a lot of time with foreplay before you actually get to the dirty dirty. start out slow and then go as fast as you'd like once you start to ****. once again if you truly love your boyfriend, than it is making love, no need to worry about whether your doing it right or not.
oh and as for the rose petals, try not to be ridiculously romantic, this is romantic comedy.
2007-07-07 06:11:23 · answer #2 · answered by Mikey D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You rents were right to go NUCLEAR!!! As much as I can sympathies with what happened and all I'm sorry to say but your a fool. What happens if you now have H.I.V? Your friend is going to feel so guilty that she has given it to you for one. You must be concerned about it because you wouldn't have wrote this otherwise. There's nothing wrong with being in a relationship with someone who's H.I.V, after all there human too but to just recklessly risk your own health (and the people around you) in this way is so bad. I say the people around you because if you have H.I.V you have to be careful because even though very rare and difficult it is still possible to pass it onto someone else without sex. You should get yourself checked and hope to god you haven't caught it because your life will change if you have. (and you won't like it) Imagine if you have it and then you get AID's how would this girl feel then. Sorry harsh words I know but you need to know how foolish it was because if you have sex with someone with H.I.V without thinking of the consequences it probable if you have got it that you would have sex with someone else and give it to them too. PROTECTION IS NO LONGER A CHOICE FOR YOU!
2016-04-01 01:58:07 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty fine line, When you are NOT in a relationship, sex is just sex, but if you are in a relationship making love doesn't mean you have to go all slow and lovey dovey, it can be off the walls wild and still be making love because you are doing it with the one you love the most. Making love can be as slow or as wild as you want, as long as the love is there, you are making love.
2007-07-07 06:10:54 · answer #4 · answered by I'm Here 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Going at it" is pure lust, making love is Slow, its all about pleasing each other, in all ways. Sex, well that only takes a few minutes, and usually leaves the girl feeling like she has just been used, its really obvious whether its a hump or if your boyfriend is really trying to please YOU, A quickie now and then is nice, but it isnt nothing compared to really making love , You would and should know the difference. Maybe you should just tell your boyfriend to 'take things slow",. If hes just pleasing himself and disregarding your feelings, it will be over in a flash
2007-07-07 06:23:47 · answer #5 · answered by butterfly7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can try all that. It would be a nice gesture. You may think you feel better. But the truth is, you're still doing the same thing.
You can go nice and slow a few times. Doing it often makes sex boring.
2007-07-07 06:09:35 · answer #6 · answered by Daniel R 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The difference between sex and making love is emotions not just the act. Making love means he actually loves and respects you enough to share romantic evenings with you and he doesn't have to be told how, he does it.
2007-07-07 06:20:18 · answer #7 · answered by calmlikeatimebomb 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is just sex that you can have with any body. Making love is a special bond between two people. Just enjoy it. You will get the hang of it. Tell him what you want and he will do his best to make it happen. He will feel better knowing that he is satisfying you too.
2007-07-07 06:11:04 · answer #8 · answered by Mindy 22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there is no difference between the words sex and making love. making love is the term people use to make it sound nicer but ultimately sex usually involves going at it. if you enjoy the sex you have with your man and its passionate and all that then dont worry, there is nothing wrong. if you want it slower then do it slower but calling it one thing or the other doesnt change the essence of it. its just semantics.
2007-07-07 06:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by asg_is_chillin 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its fairly normal just to bang away in the early stages,But experience,love and tenderness will come in time, but enjoy the bang bang while you can as its part of life's experience!!! Both ere fantastic in there own right!
2007-07-07 06:17:02 · answer #10 · answered by 121aloraphotos 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋