My mom says no dating till im 16 well im 15 and 3 months and there is this really great guy (he's 17) that i wanna go out with but i asked her and she said no your not old enough but i think i am and i need help on how i can get her to let me go out with him......
(they dont kno each other cuz he goes to a different school in a town like 20 minutes away but i dont think she'd be up for meeting him)
(i've already talked to him about it and he says he'll wait but i feel so bad for him plus i dont wanna wait grrrr this sucks =(
2007-07-07 05:59:51 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
if you pester your mom too much, she might push your dating age back more. :O so i would go by momma's rule, but introduce him to her so she can get to know him and judge for herself.
guys will come and go, but you got your mother for life.
2007-07-07 06:16:49 · answer #1 · answered by Christina V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't mature enough to date anyone. Without a change in attitude you may not be at 16. Your mom said no. She's made it clear probably for a long time that there would be no dating until you were 16.
This guy sounds like he's more mature than you are, and out of respect for your parents you need to introduce him to them. You could ask your mom if you can invite him over for dinner and then watch a movie at home. That way you are showing her you respect her wishes, you are mature enough to stop whining and showing the guy the same thing. A 17yr old doesn't want to date a whining baby, and that's what you are acting like right now.
Oh and btw, no parent in their right mind is going to let you go out with someone they haven't met.
2007-07-07 13:38:27 · answer #2 · answered by tjnstlouismo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK do you want to be happy or do want to be right?
I think you guys can wait 9 months till you go on an actual date.
In the mean time why can't he come over for dinner or just hang out? (while your parents are home)
He sounds like he likes you enough to do the right thing.
I would not push Mom's too hard and turn her off or make her suspicious that he is pressuring you .
I went though this recently and now that she turning 16 July 24 so the wait was not so bad & we got to meet Josh and feel good about them dating.
Good luck
2007-07-07 13:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by theladygeorge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't blame your mom to feel this way especially nowadays, the way guys think. There's always something in their mind. Ask him to come over to meet your mom, at least she has a clear idea who you're meeting. By the way, you're still young, know what's your priority. Have fun and don't be too serious. You can have as many guy friends but as time goes by you'll know what you want. Enjoy life day by day, and don't let that one wrong move affect it.
2007-07-07 14:03:26 · answer #4 · answered by LoMo108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, ask your mom if he can come over and hang out. Tell her that you really like, him and tell her why. Explain that you undersand her rules, but you'dlike her to get to know him so that when you reach 16 she can trust him enough to let you leave with him. If she goes for this, go with it for a few months then ask gently if she would concider letting you guys go out on a group date. I did this whe nI was your age adn it worked.
2007-07-07 13:17:00 · answer #5 · answered by Brandi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe ask about a group date. It may not be exactly what you were thinking, but at least you can go out with him. Also ask her what if she drives or his parents drive would that matter. I know that he probably has his license but your mom may agree if she gets to drop you off and pick you up.
2007-07-07 13:18:21 · answer #6 · answered by coopermom2006 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋