Question regarding parents?

Question

I dont know i could be wrong. I am 24 years old but according to our culture we live with parents. When your parents always blame you for everything, when they yell at you for no reason, when they make you think that you are worthless, What should you do? I go to school and full time job plus i have no other activities because i never felt fresh living. I want to live happy. Please help me.

Answer 1

You're 24, regardless of your culture you should still move out, you can move somewhere close to them if you don't want to be too far away, but you need your sanity and the stress from jobs and school are enough for a person of your age. Just move out, you'll be happier. Independence and bloom into something beautiful.

Answer 2

You cannot change the culture you live in, but you can change yourself. Is there a law that says you have to live with your family? If not and you can afford it, then move out. If you cannot, then start acting like a man and not a child. You are not worthless, and your parents cannot make you worthless. Don't give them that power. Look at what they are yelling at you about and if its is your fault, then correct it. If its not your fault then ignore it. If you can culturally stand up to your parents, you can respectfully disagree with them. Ask them specifically what you can do to make them happy.

I really think you should move out and live your own life, but I understand you may not be able to do that.

Answer 3

if you parents are affecting you happiness, speak to them. when they blame you, it could be because they are unhappy in themselves, people tend to take their unhappiness out on those they love.

speak to them, try to make them understand, you don't like them yelling at you all the time, it hurts when they call you worthless and blame you for everything.

You sound like a well balanced young person, you have a full time job, what more do they want from you, if you are educating yourself even further, cause you mention you go to school, what more do they want from you.

is it because you are still live at home and they thought they would be free from you?? make them explain why they seem so unhappy with the way you are, the problem has to be sorted, otherwise you will be emotionally drained by their continual verbal hurtfulness.

Answer 4

At 24 you're still living with mommy and daddy? They may be frustrated with you still at home. You go to school and work full time, do you also pay rent or help out financially with the household?....

I think at the age of 24 it's time to move out and get on your own, regardless of your 'culture'...How can you possibly find happiness in that environment?...As they say, 'if you can't stand the heat, get out of the kitchen!'

Answer 5

well if it is really culture then you have to do it but you also break that culture and i know how you fell if your parents tell you that you are worthless and blame you for ever thing but move out find a wife get married and don't tell your kids the same thing break the chain!!!!!
-chewy

Answer 6

i think alot of time people are willing to sacrifice their happiness and success in life souly on whatculture dictates them to, You need to move out and be happy, if your parents make you feel that way you need to leave, plus you are 24 y/o you are an adult now man up and leave I almost gaurantee if you become successfull they will come crawling back for your help and support.

Answer 7

Honestly you might just have to move out. Parents are like old dogs, it's hard to teach them to treat you differently.

Answer 8

if you go to a university or something you should think of moving into residence to gain some independence and repair you selfesteem, and think about meeting more people

Answer 9

I would talk to them and tell them how they make you feel. Ask them to change. If they don't move out.