i'm 15 and really close to my coach b/c we train like every day together. he takes me home on saturday when my mum and dad go out for dinner. a while ago i invited him into my house b/c there was no one else at home. we ended up doing it but he then said that im too young for him. im so upset and i cant bear going to training with him now. it has also affected my performance and i messed up at a big competition last week. by the way hes only 24 b/c hes the junior coach and used to swim in the squad with me. what should i do ? should i make him see that we wer meant to be
2007-07-07 01:13:55 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
its different though b/c he used to be in my squad and we wer always good friends he plays in a band and a group of us always went to watch his gigs
2007-07-07 01:28:24 · update #1
you shouldnt have done that cuz ur a minor and he is 9 yrs older than u
2007-07-07 13:20:49 · answer #1 · answered by james d 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. You should:
1. Groom immaculately
2. Dress nicely
3. Study harder than ever
4. Don’t use profanity
5. Spend an hour a day in the library
6. Spend an hour a day at the gym
7. Honor your parents and your teachers
8. Get involved in a worthy school function
9. Volunteer a few hours a week for a worthy cause
10. Help someone every day
11. Go to Church
12. Invite your friends to Church
13. Keep your panties on until you are at least 18
14. SMILE
15. Speak badly of no one
Good Luck
2007-07-07 08:18:54 · answer #2 · answered by snvffy 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your parents or an adult what happened. What happened is totally illegal. You can't let this happen to another child, which is what you are. He should not be able to coach other children or teenagers. He is old enough to know better, you are not.
2007-07-07 08:23:14 · answer #3 · answered by Alison M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yah know he can go to jail for rape? You are a minor. He's TOO old for you. Go training...and I don't mean "doing it" either.
2007-07-07 08:19:31 · answer #4 · answered by jane dough 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
is he seriously interested in u or he did it just for fun? first know dat!! if he is interested in a casual fling then move on...! u r still too young
2007-07-07 08:19:15 · answer #5 · answered by aqua 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you he is just scared right now just give him time and he will come around, then you will marry and live in happiness
2007-07-07 08:33:32 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is up to you ok if he says that then you don't deserve him if he is going to be like that k girl?
2007-07-07 08:18:17 · answer #7 · answered by Elizabeth W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOL.... ummmm break it off. Is he married?
2007-07-07 08:16:17 · answer #8 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋