thank you for your answers!
what if a guy and a girl contact each other all the time and talk all the time....and they are just friends. is it possible for a guy and a girl to be JUST friends? what is your opinion....
thank you! :)
2007-07-06 20:06:28 · 19 answers · asked by dancing4ever 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
ABSOLUTELY!!! I have alot more male friends than I do female friends. And believe me they are only friends I would never jeopardize my friendship for sex or a relationship.
2007-07-06 20:09:26 · answer #1 · answered by marianne d 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course. Some of my best friends are guys.
Often, one will start to have feelings for the other. And this can end in heartbreak. But that's a possible scenario, not a definite scenario.
However, it's still entirely possible to have close platonic friends of the opposite sex.
2007-07-06 20:14:07 · answer #2 · answered by atalanta 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My experience, generally no. For me this was almost always a form of denial. I was fooling myself and trying, sometimes unsuccessfully, to fool the woman I was trying to get. This was also true for friends of mine who were involved in things like this. There's a lady at work who's like 30 years older than me and I talk to her at work kind of like a mother. But if we had too many one-on-one lunches together it would start to feel wierd.
I think we all know what boundaries not to cross. One-on-one time is a big one. I think romantic feelings automatically develop, wether we want them to or not when too much time is spent together on a one-on-one basis. There are no rules though. We just know when it starts to feel like a romance. It's when we're interested in denial when the rules become important. Like we can hang out all the time but if we don't do anything sexual then it's not a relationship and just friendship. Or, if the woman pays for half of the meal it wasn't a date.
So, listen to your heart. YOU know when it's starting to feel like something.
2007-07-08 12:09:14 · answer #3 · answered by LG 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is very possible becuz as long as there is nothing between this girl and this guy then it's okay.girls should always have a guy to be a close friend of theirs becuz if you have guy en ur friend who is a guy can help u sicne he's a guy. nd its good that u nd him can conatct each other becuz if u really need some help he is always there for u
2007-07-06 20:12:44 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, I have two girl friends, and I talk to them very often and talk to them secrets or things like that, because I don't feel any physical attraction to them...so yes a guy and a girl can just be friends...
but I also have other girl friends to whom I really feel attracted and would like to date some day
2007-07-06 20:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it is possible to just be friends but if you think anything of each other it will probably lead to other things, basically what is a marrage, you are partners, you are best friends besides loving each other
2007-07-06 20:22:55 · answer #6 · answered by herdsman101uk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes girls and guys can be friends and talk all the time (a best friend). SOMETIMES THERE IS JUST ALITTLE MORE. YOU CAN JUST FEEL THE CHEMISTREY.
2007-07-06 20:13:13 · answer #7 · answered by Wandering Jenni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course =]
i believe that having a boy as a friend is great .
just be careful that the other one doesn't think of you the love way
2007-07-06 20:14:46 · answer #8 · answered by Krist_21 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it is. One of my best friends is a girl.
2007-07-06 20:09:51 · answer #9 · answered by Daniel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes its possible, but its also possible that he will want more at some point (if not now)
2007-07-06 20:15:06 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋