if your girlfriend went up and just kissed you
or grabed you hand to hold
or made the first move
my boyfriend thinks im not interested in him
and i reallllly am.
but what would a guy think is cute do do in the movie theater
nothing sexual
keep in mind we've only been going out for about 3 weeks and im very shy
please
2007-07-06 19:43:09 · 18 answers · asked by krystal_metth 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
and we have kissed before and he wants me to kiss kiss him
2007-07-06 19:49:54 · update #1
i would wonder why so soon. in my opion?
2007-07-06 19:46:40 · answer #1 · answered by the_silverfoxx 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he thinks you're not interested in him because you aren't being physical with him or being sexy enough or whatever, he may be trying to manipulate you to do something you may not be ready for. Three weeks is not a long time to get to really know someone and feel comfortable with them. He wants to do more than you are ready for, I think. Don't do anything that doesn't feel right and natural to you. If the 2 of you don't agree on those things then he's not the one for you. Don't let anyone change who you are. Don't be pressured into doing anything, ever! Be yourself to attract the kind of person who will fit with you!
2007-07-06 19:50:42 · answer #2 · answered by gma 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I don't, i've gone out with some attractive guys even though i'm fairly average. I have also gone out with some average guys, for me it's more about personality and depth. I couldn't be in a relationship with someone I couldn't have good conversations with.
2016-05-20 04:23:46 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
As for kissing, that's a big step, and you gotta make sure he's ready for that. If he doesn't /want/ to kiss you and you do, no that's not attractive at all :). But when you feel that it's the right time to slip your hand into his or give him a peck on the cheek or whatever then go for it! everyone has to have a chance at making the first move.
2007-07-06 19:48:04 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd find it attractive when my girlfriend comes up to me & kisses me just like that or hold my hand. Its cute if you try to put your head on his shoulder. That's the best you can do not sexual or without trying to make out.
2007-07-06 19:46:37 · answer #5 · answered by Razor Snake 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys not only like that, we need it. Make us feel you want and need us. Dont make us do all the work. As far as the movie thing, if its a chick flick maybe scratch our neck or rub our arms or anything. If its a guys movie dont bug us for 2 hours.
2007-07-06 19:52:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think it would be attractive if my girlfriend came up and kissed me.......
i would like it if (in theatre) my "girlfriend" would just lay your head against me or on my shoulder and maybe a kiss depending on what kind of movie. I am shy too but really i would just tell your boyfriend that i(you) tell him that you love him very much and you are interested in him.......
hope that helped!
2007-07-06 19:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by babak434 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That will be a great moment!! off course only if I like her too.
A head on my shoulder or a hand in mine will be the most looked for in a Movie Theater.
2007-07-06 19:48:26 · answer #8 · answered by cancerians_are_emperors 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yo i know u want tdudes to answer
but almost all my friends are dudes
and i know how they think!
yea i think he would like that
because since ur going out
u obviously know u both like each other
so it wont be like a chance ull be taking
he'll think ur brave to make moves, and thats a good thing
dont worry he wont think ur a slut or anything
its just holding hands and kissing?
2007-07-06 19:48:22 · answer #9 · answered by i_will_bite_u_69 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My girlfriend has no problems in being assertive, and I like a woman who is forthright, however, some men don't like those traits. It really depends on the guy.
2007-07-06 19:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by cireengineering 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
some guys are to shy to do that sort of stuf first for the movie thing holding hands is good its not sexual but it shows him you like him
2007-07-06 19:48:01 · answer #11 · answered by davidpb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋