2007-07-06 19:39:42 · 21 answers · asked by Monique 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
hey, no one can make this decision for you, but seeing how you want someone's approval then you really dont want to. I know you want to "be a great girlfriend", you want to "prove your love" an "show how much you care" and your thinking "why not if were gonna be together forever?"
but if you have had other boyfriends you've cared about then you know things dont always work out even if you two do really love each other..and think to yourself if you ARE gonna be with him forever..whats the big hurry???...you can be the unique one out of a society of girls...you may be the only one but thats why everyone will secretly admire you..i really wish i could be "that girl" the sared one..nobody ever touched her...boys secretly like that girls are strong minded ever if thier jerks sometimes...just wait ...tell your boyfriend you'll prove your love by making love with him..and he'll prove his love by waiting until your ready
2007-07-06 19:55:49 · answer #1 · answered by french_miester 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If in doubt........ don't! How long have you two been together? How old are you both?
Your virginity is a wonderful thing, and something you should not give away without a lot of thought. Once it is given there is no taking it back.
During my teens it was the norm to wait until marriage before having sex, however now there are so many constraceptives available and condoms also which reduce the risk or pregnancy and disease, however they are not foolproof. I think too that som girls lack self-esteem and therefore want to have sex to seek approval from the guy. (if I have sex with him he'll like me more).
Please talk about this with your bf before you make the decision and perhaps with another adult that you feel comfortable discussing something so personal with. You must think seriously about the consequences of your actions. eg: unwanted pregnancy or STD.
You should not take that step unless you are fully prepared emotionally and practically.
Whatever your decision, I wish you well.
God bless,
Sharon
2007-07-07 02:56:08 · answer #2 · answered by schmoo_withazing 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wait as hard as it might be dont loose somthing have you can only have once stay a virgin til you are married. couse wouldnt you like it if your husband told you that he had never slept with anyone before he and you were married?
hope you make the right choice
2007-07-07 02:44:57 · answer #3 · answered by Jonno 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When you're ready, you know. Dont force it just to impress someone or because he wants to. Youll regret it later and it will cause issues down the line. Hopefully you're over 15 and are mature enough to make the decision for you and not anyone else.
Good luck!
2007-07-07 02:44:24 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know how old you are, but if your still young and at school, i'd say no. But it doesn't matter what people tell you, if you are ready and in love then go for it. but please remember to use precautions. And if you do it, i hope it will be a beautiful new experience for you. But don't worry if it is not, first time can be a nervous time for you and you might orgasm, but that all comes with practise. good luck
2007-07-07 02:51:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No No No If you truly love one another it can wait. I once like you chose to lose it and have regretted it ever since it will change your whole life if you do it. Just think long and hard before you make that decision because you can't ever turn back.
2007-07-07 02:45:42 · answer #6 · answered by secret_serenity20 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep your pants on as that girl say
because if u take off with fool
will regret on that forever
because u willl wish that happened with your real soulmate
2007-07-07 02:44:02 · answer #7 · answered by online2007z 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should only give up your virginity if it is for yourself.
dont do it just because he wants it.
just remember darlin, be smart about it.
and do it for the right reasons.
2007-07-07 02:44:19 · answer #8 · answered by Kelsey 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO, definitely not. You will regret it later when you two break up, as you surely will. Be cool.
2007-07-07 02:42:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
women will tell you No and men will tell you yes sure why not
I will tell you will lose him directly after you give him everyhting
2007-07-07 02:45:00 · answer #10 · answered by Changed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋