we broke up 5 month ago from a 2 year relationship were 17 he said it wasnt working he's been going out with someone for about 2 month now but, i cant he's on my mind constantly i cant forget him i dont want to do anything with anybody else every thing i do reminds me of him, will he feel the same?
2007-07-06 13:15:01 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
People get over relationships different ways. If he broke up with you and is dating someone else, then he won't be coming back. Time for you to start working through the depression and make yourself get out and do some fun things with your girl friends.
2007-07-06 13:19:01 · answer #1 · answered by Karen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly..probably not, if he ended it and he's already with someone else, he has more than likely moved on.
I'm am sorry that you are hurting, I've been there at your age but you should know that the pain your feeling won't last forever, even though it probably feels like the end of the world now, it isn't.
I hate to tell you but your first love is just a stepping stone...there will be someone else. Just try and learn from this experience...this relationship you had has helped you grow in some way and even though you really don't feel like being involved with anyone else, you will. So it hurts...but you have to let him go hon..it's time to be an individual again and figure out where you go from here. Surely you must have some life goals set...finishing up college, or starting a new career, it's time to focus on those type of things.
2007-07-06 13:26:22 · answer #2 · answered by darknangelic77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, the whole thing about relationships is that it takes a long time to figure out what you want in a partner. She seems to be a bit confused on this and you're caught up in it. I'd stay her friend since I bet she didn't mean anything bad against you by it and who knows, maybe in a few months or a year you'll be the ex she likes. Or you'll find someone else... or, who knows? It's pretty much out of your hands. Some people change a lot through high school, anything could happen. Just be chill and go with it.
2016-05-20 01:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry. @ 17, he will not. You were more emotionall invested into him and it will hurt for who knows how long. Finding a new guy might not do the trick.
What you are going through is VERY common as it happens to everybody and it's even harder when you don't see it coming. You have a broken heart and it could last a long time. BUT, you could end up seeing him in a different light one day and get over the hurts easily after that.
If you are going to be going to college, you're going to go through a whole change in things and it may end up making you forget with all the stuff you'll have to assume the responsibilites for.
Time heals all wounds. It'll heal yours too.
2007-07-06 13:24:42 · answer #4 · answered by atoughlife2 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have a read of this book "Set yourself free in relationships" by Shirley Smith. Its the best book Ive seen on relationships. Be open to what it has to say. The reason why many of us feel bad after a relationship breaks up (and even think about that person for the rest of our lives) is because we become dependant upon our partners for us to be happy (hence why you feel so bad at the moment). When you become more empowered about your life you will attract the type of partner you want and will have a far more rewarding experience.
2007-07-06 13:25:32 · answer #5 · answered by Groover 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No way I just had a similar problem and so does my friend.
You just are having trouble moving on, you probably think that you'll never find anyone else. Also thats its hard to see him with another girl.
Its okay!!
Think about others things to keep your mind off of him. Like hang out with friends and do some of your favorite things.
Before you know it another guy will show up in your life and you would have completely moved on!
If you have any trouble or questions just ask me!!
:3
2007-07-06 13:20:15 · answer #6 · answered by Lizzy Lizz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is true that sometimes we expect people to make us happy in a relationship. When we meet a guy and we care a lot about them it does make us happy. Sometimes we depend on this to make us happy and when it ends we feel sad and it is normal. I understand what you are going through. It's the idea of being in-love or having a b/f, g/f relationship that we can't let go of. Make yourself happy by doing things you like to do and realize that your happiness doesn't depend on someone elses actions.
2007-07-06 13:37:52 · answer #7 · answered by gurlndixie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would appear that your ex boyfriend has moved on with his life and you are no longer a part of it.As painful as that may be for you, you have to do the same.Love comes with pain and disappointment as well as joy and pleasure. That is the irony of this emotion we call love.Meanwhile, you are important and there is a man out there who is just perfect for you .You may not believe me now because of the way you currently feel , but your pain will ease soon.Don't hesitate to call on your friends and family for help and support if you need it.Please let us know how you are doing.
2007-07-06 13:34:41 · answer #8 · answered by abbeycoolit 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he's dating someone else,he has moved on ! breaking up isn't easy.but, you will get through it .like sooooooooooo,many other people have. you can choose to keep your mind on him and make yourself even more miserable (i been there ,and done that) or you can choose to get out and get with friends ,or spend some thing else a movie,visiting a relative.find ways to fill your time.it gets easier. tell yourself i will give myself 2hrs. to cry ,yell ,feel pain over my past relationship and then let the rest of the day belongs to good feelings that as a woman you deserve with or without a man!
2007-07-06 13:25:53 · answer #9 · answered by need2know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you still love him don't you? it's a little too late for you to talk to him. he probably expected you to say something but you didnt. it wil take time to move on. just tell yourself that he already has a gf. maybe you should have talked to him. you cant do anything now. talk to him but not at the moment because it wouldnt be right for his gf. if they broke up, talk to him and tell him that you cant forget him and want a second chance. oh, by the way, see if he cheated on you and ask him why it didnt work out.
2007-07-06 13:22:01 · answer #10 · answered by Candy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋