2007-07-06 09:43:58 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course not! Wouldn't you be freaked out if you went on a date with a guy who is already picturing a wedding in his head??
But if you already know you are going to dump him anyway then I wouldn't do it. The only result from that will be hurt people.
2007-07-06 09:47:09 · answer #1 · answered by nohandtohold 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, that happens all the time. People date other people just to find out what type of person they are...sort of like trying out different shoes and seeing which fits the best or looks better...but it doesn't always mean that you're going to buy that shoe(the best analogy I can come up with for this question). Not everyone has marriage on their mind when they're in a relationship. Now, if you start using someone for personal benefits, then there's going to be a problem.
2007-07-06 09:52:51 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
I think its wrong to date someone with the intentions of marrying. In the begining of a relationship you should be focusing on the present and worry about the future for when/if you become more serious.
2007-07-06 09:49:18 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not as long as they know what's going on from the beginning. From experience a reminder here and there is usually needed. But, if you are that serious about not marrying then you have to be prepared to break it off and/or hurt someone if they start to get the wrong idea despite warnings.
2007-07-06 09:48:13 · answer #4 · answered by camelyn 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As long as the person you are dating knows this about you, then no, it's not wrong. But you should be clear of your intentions to the person you are dating. That's only fair. Otherwise, you are wasting that person's time.
2007-07-06 09:48:06 · answer #5 · answered by tkeppers 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dating doesnt having to eventually lead to marriage. Some people just dont like the idea of marriage and that's just fine. As time goes by, you may find that your intentions start to lean more and more towards marriage, but if they don't, who cares? As long as you enjoy being with that person, dating them doesnt have to include ulterior motives.
2007-07-06 09:48:20 · answer #6 · answered by I_heart_geometry 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absolutely not. Too bad if we married everyone we dated. There would be a lot more divorces than there are now. As long as you are honest with the person you are dating then there should be no problems.
2007-07-06 09:57:56 · answer #7 · answered by bugalugs1976 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. How does anyone know in the beginning that they intend to marry the other person? I'm guessing that anyone saying yes must have dated only one person in their life.
As long as both people are honest and they're not doing something illegal then pretty much the sky's the limit.
2007-07-06 09:47:20 · answer #8 · answered by elurle 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not at all. When you are dating you are basically just playing the field. Marrige and engagments are only when you feel that you are ready to settle down with a person that you feel you know well enough, and are sure your in love and would be prepared to spend the rest of your life with.
2007-07-06 09:47:34 · answer #9 · answered by Remus L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not to date someone, no. Dating is how you find an eligible person that you think that you want to spend the rest of your life with. Happy Dating!!
2007-07-06 09:46:56 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋