My bf just messaged me on myspace and told me we should just be friends..I really love him,but idk. So,i went 2 his profile to see if something happened and he posted a few new pics-A pic of him and some girl on a slide,and another of him and the girl,with the girl sitting on a slide and him sitting kinda off the slide,u could see 1 hand and his other hand was somewhere,but the girls face told u where it was-under her ***!! I am a mess-sobbing and everything,what can I do?
2007-07-06 09:22:55 · 21 answers · asked by ? 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He just called me and broke up w/ me. The hard thing is i told him everything and we were like best friends,we've been dating for over 2 years...i'm sorry if i sound like a baby,it's just hard.
2007-07-06 09:32:22 · update #1
Dump his sorry azz, cause I know you deserve way better!!!
2007-07-06 09:25:51 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
How ridiculous, I saw your profile and you're 16? So am I, going to become 17 and a senior. I also play volleyball. How coincidental. How do you have a pic avatar? Hah.
Hey, not all relationships work, ya know? Don't sweat it, there are plenty of fish in the sea. It happens here and there. High school relationships don't always work out. Someone's always going to end up cheating. But look at it this way, we're still teenagers and guys only want sex and GIRLS. The more girls they have, the happier they get, ya know? It's true. Just remember, you're not a s1ut like everyone else, k? If he cheated on you, let it go. He'll cheat on his "new girlfriend" and she'll experience what you experienced.
Just let it slide, you deserve someone a lot better.
2007-07-06 16:30:36 · answer #2 · answered by krazych1nky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all your bf is a coward for telling something like that in a myspace message. So right ther you know he definitely did not deserve you. Maybe it's for the best. Look at this as a possitive thing. It's not good to be with someone who does not love you. So move on. When the time is right you will find someone who will give you that love back!
Good luck'
2007-07-06 16:28:35 · answer #3 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dang hes an ***! After two years he shouldn't end it like this. There's nothing much you can do but not stress yourself out because he seems to have issues with what he wants. And about him just wanting to be friends is not such a good idea because you still love him and being just friends with the person you love is really hard and hurts you more.
2007-07-06 16:49:23 · answer #4 · answered by queen101latina08 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok..first off breaking up with someone in a myspace message..is really immature..hes obviously not much of a man..and if there are already a bunch of girls on his page ....then this guy is obviously a player and a jerk and you deserve someone better..just invite a few friends over go to the mall..get your mind off of him..dont let him see you sad ...because then he will just feel good about himself..make sure the next time you see him..he sees you happy and confident..and eventually he will be sorry for what he missed out on..but it will be too late..ya know..it just takes time..things will get better...good luck!
-daisy.
2007-07-06 16:28:56 · answer #5 · answered by daisy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both people have to want to be in a relationship for it to work out. I'm sorry that he's not interested in staying in a relationship with you, but there's really nothing you can do about that. Feel bad for a little while if that helps, but then move on. There are other guys out there who will be interested in a long-term relationship with you. You just gotta date a few first. Best wishes.
2007-07-06 16:28:12 · answer #6 · answered by Trivial One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a pretty rotten thing of him to do.
For the time being, go ahead and cry your eyes out, and get the bad emotions out of your system. Then, review what (if any) warning signs there may have been that you missed. Look for your next boyfriend with these in mind.
Good luck, and I hope you get over him soon.
2007-07-06 16:30:29 · answer #7 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You deserve better. Forget the looser, grab all your girls and go out EVERY night. (don't get drunk and all that-lol, just get out with friends) After a week of fun with your real friends it won't hurt and you will feel better. Just do not stay in, go out with friends as often as you can. Do not talk to the looser, it only hurts more. Get excited about whom you could meet, you will find your man soon.
2007-07-06 16:30:25 · answer #8 · answered by sentfromheaven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Number one....HE BROKE UP WITH YOU THROUGH A MYSPACE MESSAGE?!?!??!
That says enough.
Make a list of all the things you hate about him. don't call him. Don't look at his myspace. Cut all communication from him thats the best option.
And when in doubt, just egg his house.
2007-07-06 16:25:55 · answer #9 · answered by Cant believe im doing this 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Just leave it alone and try to move on. He is not worth your tears trust me. I would completely cut him off. If he trys to contact you ignore him. Just try to keep busy and hang out with your friends a lot to help keep your mind off of him. It will be hard but with time i promise you it will get better. Good luck.
2007-07-06 16:28:40 · answer #10 · answered by California Kush 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If a guy dumps you over MySpace then who the hell cares, he's a loser go find a real man who will treat you right.
2007-07-06 16:27:38 · answer #11 · answered by TomyBoy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋