You see we started out wonderfully. We were perfect for each other. I'm 20 and she is 18. After a little less than a year I took her virginity. After the first year of our relationship things kind of started to get bumpy. We were in a long distance relationship for 6 months and I became very insecure and we'd constantly argue over the phone. After the 6 months I came back and things seemed to be coming together again. Since I've been back we have so many ups and downs. Arguements left and right. We drove each other further apart and decided to take a "break". I don't know if I mentioned it but we were in love and I still am. I'm not so sure about her. She just graduated high school and is going to college soon. Anyway 3 or 4 days after the break I asked her to come over so we could talk. She says she is confused and she might not even want a boyfriend anymore. There was something by the look on her face that something was wrong. Another guy kissed her and i guess she kissed him back.
2007-07-06 09:21:34 · 15 answers · asked by lagitoriginal 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
All I can say bro is love hurts. If you truly love someone you have to set it free and if it truly loves you it will always come back. I had to do that with my wife like 6 months ago and after 3 weeks of not talking much and me thinking it was totally over she called me and now we are together and have been happy every since. Dont worry about another guy it will just make yousick thinking about it I promise that, and if you kick the other guys *** it will drive her further away, good luck.
2007-07-06 09:43:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im gonna be completely honest. No, she will not come back if you give her space! You took her virginity and have opened her door to curiousity! She probably wants to be in more( or is) relationships before she decides to settle down. I say this because it happened to me. I was 15 when a 17 year old boyfriend took my virginity and then after a year, i cheated on him because he was wanting something more serious and couldn't handle the pressure. I told him and he threw me out of his house. But i am thankful that it happened because i am now 20 and have made better decisions when it comes to dating. I suggest you let her go before she hurts you ( something is up with her)... take time to just hang with your pals, party, and attend school. When you feel it is time, look for a girl your age and hopefully not a virgin. This way you both will have had sexual experiences and the relationship will be more balanced. It may not make sense, but trust me, im a girl! For all you know, she could have lied and has probably already cheated on you more than you think. Look, do what i recommend and you'll be fine. Dump her *** and show her that you will not be second choice. But be nice about it okay. And don't have break up sex! Good luck and listen to your heart. There is a girl out there for you..all you have to do is make yourself available and go to singles' parties and stuff. Take care.
2007-07-06 09:49:44 · answer #2 · answered by *~*_BELLA_*~* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she needs a chance to date other guys, she's still young, and so are you, keep in touch with each other, both of you start dating other people and if the 2 of you are really meant to be then maybe you'll get back together in the future, but sounds like she's ready to move on! Take a break from each other that's my advice.
2007-07-06 09:30:35 · answer #3 · answered by Rachel M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's infantile, bratty, controlling, egocentric, financially based and manipulative and it incredibly is painfully glaring that she does not love you. those are all purple flags of emotional abuse. circulate on, take your infant, and make an more advantageous existence for yourselves *devoid of* her. you have diverse turning out to be as much as do, too. Letting a woman circulate in with you after 2 weeks? residing along with your mothers and dads on your 30s? Refusing to settle for accountability? It takes 2 to tango, darlin'. look at your self formerly you element arms.
2016-09-29 05:23:04 · answer #4 · answered by pantano 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is going away to college where I am sure the older guys will have a field day with her. Move on there are a million other girls out there.
2007-07-06 09:35:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you may have lost her the fighting she probably got tired of you guys are young she could of grew out of you the down fall of love is that it hurts
2007-07-06 09:39:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be such a pussy. She is not coming back and the sooner you get on with your life the better.
2007-07-06 09:25:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is very young and ready to move on with her life. You should do the same.
2007-07-06 09:25:30 · answer #8 · answered by David B 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on sweetie
2007-07-06 09:26:08 · answer #9 · answered by aiden'smommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont think so but maybe u 2 can just b friends
2007-07-06 09:25:45 · answer #10 · answered by genessa t 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋