how to be a good kisser?

Question

i was recently told im not that great at kissing!!! has any one please got any pointers that will help me out please??????

would be much appreciated

Answer 1

Sensual, sexy lip-to-lip is a lost art for many of us who find ourselves face-to-face with a new amour. And I'd put money on it that jaded pros of French kissing could stand to refine their technique. So let's get right down to the essentials of what will add a French flavor to your lips:

The Timing
The best lovers of the world (who, by the way, are rarely French) are masters of timing. They know how to milk the yearning by barely brushing their lips against yours, and they know precisely when to go in, full-throttled, for the kill. While sense of timing may be a genetically inherited trait shared among musicians, comedians and successful stockbrokers, one can learn the basics by paying close attention your partner's breathing. If he is panting and breathless, experiment with Exhibit A below. If your date has calm and predictable inhalations, give Exhibit B a shot. If your date isn't breathing, call 911. But first, let's review the basics:

The Mechanics
The first rule of French kissing is that every woman has her own style. This style evolves out of a combination of your mouth's unique anatomy, including the length of your tongue and how far your jaw will open, as well as your level of sexual aggression and personal tastes. Regardless, the mechanics are all the same: Tilt your head to one side, part your lips, slip your tongue into your mate's parting lips, then explore what's inside. Breathe through your nose (or your mouth if your nose is stuffy). Once you've got the basic mechanics down, it's time to experiment with technique. Here are two worthy of experimentation:
Exhibit A (The Lusty French Kiss)
This kiss needs no warm-up. You want your partner and your partner wants you, as evidenced by your collective, animal-like panting. Your tongue is already in his mouth before you realize that you're kissing. But now what? Slowly -- and I mean slowly -- roll your tongue in circles around your partner's. Thrust shallow, thrust deep. Then circle again. Tilt your head to the other side, and repeat. Playfully bite his lower lip, then lick his lips. Try different variations of the above. The combinations are endless.

Exhibit B (The Coy French Kiss)
This kiss needs coaxing, as evident by your partner's mellow breathing. Start with his lips. With the tip of your tongue lick his top lip, then kiss him softly, no tongue. Next, taste his lower lip, then brush both your lips back and forth, and up and down his. Gaze seductively into your partner's eyes -- eye contact usually helps rev up the respiratory system. Next, add a little panting and moaning to your efforts. Finally, ease your tongue between his lips, slipping in and out. Continue in this coy manner until you reach the point where the lusty French kiss takes over (see above). Then alternate between the coy and lusty kisses. You see, variety and surprise are what ultimately make a French kiss more than just a kiss

Answer 2

Start off soft and gentle. A great kiss is all about a variety of sensations. The worst is ramming your tongue down someone's throat. Try tucking the tip of your tongue behind your lower teeth when you go for it and don't forget to use your lips! Watch your teeth too ... Don't underestimate the power of involving your hands in the kiss ... on their face or embracing them, etc.

Answer 3

Some people are over anxious about kissing, and they go all tight lipped. The best way to kiss is to part your lips freely so that everything is loose and natural. Don't thrust your tongue too hard, just play it around his, and circle it around the inside of his lips to part them. Occasionally suck his tongue, but don't bite it. Just remember to be loose, and enjoy the situation.

Answer 4

who does it matter to?

a guy that would say that doesn't sound that nice. there's no right way to kiss.

every person has a different kiss for a different moment for a different person. maybe you shouldn't be kissing each other.. that doesn't mean you're a bad kisser.


some things that will make you a bad kisser that are easy to remedy are:
-bad breath: clean your mouth
-making lots of sloppy noises: slow down
-too much tongue: slow down

Answer 5

Watch love stories and see how they kiss. My boyfriend loves it when I slide my tongue just on his lips, licking his lips from side to side. I've never kissed anyone before him. Also, watch the pressure! Sometimes it's nice to kiss hard and deep, sometimes small quick kisses are better. Good luck!

Answer 6

Im sorry but i was the one who told you that you are a poor kisser.

I believe i used the words 'You can't kiss for peanuts'

Answer 7

Kiss with passion and feel the passion in your soul, and enjoy it, everything will fall into place.

Answer 8

be smoothe. DO NOT stick your tugue all in there and focus more on the lips. a good spot is inside the bottom lip, play with that. its feels good ;)

Answer 9

having fresh breath is the most important, take it nice and slow to start off with. if your not sure just follow their lead.

Answer 10

everyone kisses different so pointers would be sort of useless,and maybe its her and not you. who made her right?