Even after i told him i don't want to be with him anymore he still won't leave me alone! He keeps saying he'll do this and that but i am fed up ...done !! He won't even give me my keys back to my house i just don't know what to do !! Please some advice or words i can use to get him away from me !!
2007-07-06 08:30:16 · 24 answers · asked by KK 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I agree with the above answers, police and definately change all the locks in your house, but the other thing you have to do is completely ignore him. Don't take his phone calls, don't answer your door if he comes over, and if you run into him by chance, do not talk to him. It may be hard, but it's what you have to do to get someone to leave you alone.
2007-07-06 10:37:32 · answer #1 · answered by TwinMommy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
These steps work for me, just follow them in this specific order.
1st- Change the locks to your house
2nd- Warn him for the LAST time that if he doesn't leave you alone you will file for a restraining order.
3rd- Change your house and cell phone numbers.
4th- If after all this, he's still bothering you...go to the police.
2007-07-06 15:37:46 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order. Get paperwork and have the police or a male family member get your keys back. The restraining order not only tells him to stay away, but documents that you are having difficulty with him in the event he escalates his behavior
2007-07-06 15:33:09 · answer #3 · answered by dave n 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gather as much information on him as possible. Background, license plates, driver's license, friends, addresses, work. You need a photo of him. Put it in an envelope and and mail it to someone you trust, with instructions to open only in case of your disappearance.
Demand your house key in a public place with friends. Say his name so people will remember. Play hardball...you're in danger. Call police for a civil standby...its free. Change your locks, he probably made copies.
2007-07-06 15:40:27 · answer #4 · answered by abemina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call the cops and change the locks to your house.
Get a restraining order and Good luck!
2007-07-06 15:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by HoUsToN_LoCa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get a restraining order if it is that bad, change the lock to your house. Ignore his calls, ignore him when you see him. That's the best advice I got for ya. Good luck, I hope whatever you do works
2007-07-06 15:33:33 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Restraining order, police, new locks, any of them, or get back to gether, get the keys, then leave him! go out with a strong man and he will no not 2 mess with u !
2007-07-06 15:37:12 · answer #7 · answered by ~Sunny~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change the locks now!!! if he is writing letter or leaving phone messages save them in case they elevate into threats. go to your local police station and explain the situation and take out a restraining order. no one has the right to harass/stalk you. dont just hope it goes away
2007-07-06 15:40:37 · answer #8 · answered by princess 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u know what u should u should change the lock of the house and set him down and talk to him saying we had fun but it over done and bye
2007-07-06 15:43:04 · answer #9 · answered by jojolds135 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just change the lock on your house. it's a small price to pay for your freedom and peace of mind. just as long as you're sure you don't want anything to do with him anymore, and that you're not sending him mixed messages
2007-07-06 15:36:11 · answer #10 · answered by Roan29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋