i act(so say my freinds) like a guy.
the way i talk, some things i do etc. im a sports fanatic and am a tomboy but i dont hit. or dress like a guy. i dont wear pink.
i say dude alot and talk very surfferish or southern but im not inappropriate burping etc. i dont act very "girly" but im not a wanabe guy.
i look very "girly"/ curvy wich i dont like very much
am i dateable?
just out of curiosity. if im not why not
thnks! :]
2007-07-06 07:50:38 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That's not near enough information to go on. But I'm sure you're desireable to someone.
2007-07-06 07:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by gromit801 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A woman has as much right to choose her spouse as a man has. However, the "choice" should be based on Islamic principles. It has been said that a man (and woman too) may want to marry a person for beauty, wealth, status but the best choice is based on piety. Marriage, in Islam, is a multi dimensional thing. It is emotional involvement as well as a very practical decision. So it is necessary to adopt a pragmatic approach towards marriage in addition to feelings. When one is "in love", one might not be very pragmatic. So, it is best to involve others (in your case, your parents) to have an unbiased, balanced and impartial opinion. Also, it is best to preserve your dignity before an unrelated person until you are really sure this will mature into something permanent i.e. marriage. So it is best to ask about the other person's opinion via a third party by your parents. You can talk about your feelings to your heart's content once you tie the knot inshallah. Spare them for later. Also, for common knowledge of everyone, women CAN propose to men in Islam. However, no emotional, romantic scenes are encouraged. But yes, they can send a proposal of marriage (which is also the case for men). Expression of feelings can wait till marriage.
2016-05-19 23:49:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely yes. in fact alot of guys like that type of girl because you will be not only a girlfriend but also a friend. I hope could find someone like you, I would marry her immediately
However, an integral part of being sexy is to show your feminine side every once in a while, it is exactly the other way around, girls don't like hairy guys who burp all the time, but they don't like guys who are totally feminine.
One more thing, when girls are into sport or guy things, there are two pitfalls that would cause trouble in your relationships, one is to be all over your guy and not giving him any timeout to breeze. I mean don't try to replace his friends because you can be one of them.
the other pitfall don't be more manly than he is, it is very harmful and humiliating for a guy when you are better in doing guy stuff than he is. a typical example would be you for example fixing a car that he couldn't fix. or worse beat him in arm wrestling.
2007-07-06 08:08:19 · answer #3 · answered by ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are most definitly datable, as a matter of fact your are probably every guys fantasy, with you they can watch the and not have to worry about neglecting you. Take your time and find the right guy - don't change because your friends say that you are a wannabe boy.
2007-07-06 07:57:18 · answer #4 · answered by SHANE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well... the thing is that boys might look at you as one of them, just like a friend and nothing more. Boys usually like girls that act like girls, are feminine and sexy and dress like that...that just awakens their instinct of protection. If you act too boyish they might get a little bit intimidated by you or just won't see you like a potential girlfriend.
2007-07-06 07:56:45 · answer #5 · answered by Tzutzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be yourself. That is the only way you can be happy. And the right guy will like you as you are. Any one else that wants to change you is bad news. Don't go there.
2007-07-06 07:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You are dateable. i would....your not too girly...usually most women wont like to get rufed up, but you have to be too soft with women..as long as you ride and chill with ur guy, you are just fine...most men like females who like things like guys like
2007-07-06 07:55:28 · answer #7 · answered by theflash018 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you're datable! lol
So, you act like a guy. Big deal. Be yourself.
2007-07-06 07:56:55 · answer #8 · answered by GeriGeri 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm.. i think you need to girl up just a little.. show your feminine side. you need to show your curves.. not dislike them. or else your only chances of being with a guy is as a friend. i would hate to see that cause it seems to me that you want to be datable.
2007-07-06 07:54:54 · answer #9 · answered by ransom love™ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would say so because of your personality. Plus you like sports...thats hot.
2007-07-06 07:53:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋