So....
I have friend that I have been sexually attracted to for the last 3 years. But we have always been friends. I know how he is and I know that he is a dog. So I don't want anything serious from him. A couple of months ago I got the nerve to tell him that I wanted to have sex with him. And I left it up to him. 2 weeks goes by and he says nothing. So I chalked it up as loss and just figured he didn't want to which is okay with me. Then I when I saw him again for the first time after I asked him, he said "when can I have it?"
I asked "when do you want it?"
His answer: "now"
But then leaves and is nowhere to be found... I still havent seen him but he sends me little provocative text messages. What is his deal? Was I rejected? I need some clarification.
Plus... I found out that he knew I like for a while back and never said anything..what do you think about that?
2007-07-06 07:41:27 · 15 answers · asked by SexyChocolate 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It's a power game; he's playing with you.
2007-07-06 07:44:19 · answer #1 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do think he is playing with you, the real question is does he like the hunt or the game? Him never mentioning if you liked him may not mean much, if you guys have been friends that long and really values your friendship he may not have known how to approach the sitch... You need to make a decision as to whether or not you want to take the time to figure out if this is the hunt or just game. If you don't really want anything from him (ie a serious relationship) then don't sweat it, when he comes if he comes then you can do what ever you want.
2007-07-06 14:50:28 · answer #2 · answered by SHANE 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesnt want you but is having fun pulling it out of you that you want him. This makes him feel attractive and assists his ego. Next time he does it just say well I dont know that was a while ago things change or something. Hes more likely to pursue then... but even then you have to be like no really i just wanna be friends. If he has any desire at all hell be all over it.
2007-07-06 14:48:14 · answer #3 · answered by timssterling 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a perfect chance for you to get USED. Just cause hes so delicious doesn't mean you're not worse off for the encounter. Don't be led around by desire..even if you kept it smouldering for a long time. Theres a better life for you!
2007-07-06 14:46:53 · answer #4 · answered by ssunfish 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be a couple of things maybe he likes you and wants you as a serious girlfriend. Or he is just flirting and may not want anything with you. If you don't want something serious I suggest you let it go. Having sex with him might bring changing new things to your life...things that you may not be ready for!
Good luck
2007-07-06 14:51:37 · answer #5 · answered by sweetsarah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So you want to be used by him? Don't be crazy, you know how he is and he won't change. Spend your love on someone who really loves you back and can't live without you and doesn't play games. Do not have sex with him. You will ruin the friendship if you haven't already, and you will totally regret it.
I think he's just using you when he can't get someone else, and prolly laughing about it with his friends.
2007-07-06 14:46:42 · answer #6 · answered by Sunny Days 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think since he found out about the sex thing that's all he will want he won't even have to make an effort to like you or make any time for you he will come around when he has a min. to spare fu*k and leave if that what you want then OK but i wouldn't do it it will ruin your friendship and make you more attracted to him and him less attracted to you!
2007-07-06 14:46:12 · answer #7 · answered by It's ME surprise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is nothing more than having a meaningless booty call. You were neither accepted nor rejected, but it does seem like you are being played. I'm sure he will show up at your door one night looking to take advantage of your generous offer.
2007-07-06 14:46:42 · answer #8 · answered by Rckets 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to have sex with a manwhore. Ew. Have some respect for yourself. You should be glad he's giving you the runaround.
2007-07-06 14:45:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is playing with your head...if i was you i would chalk it as a loss and find a real man like me to fulfill your fantasies
2007-07-06 14:45:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋