During the school play my character and several other characters had a lot of down time so we would joke off. I always would take the kings crown and wear it and joke around with the guy who played the king in the play. Everyone said i was flirting because i would do stuff like always sit by him and talk and do stuff like put my head on his shoulder. and during one of the rehersals in the cafe, we (me, the guy who played the king and the queens understudy) would go to the back and always sit there and talk by ourselfs. And he always gave me hugs and stuff during rehersal.Only problem is i have a bf who i really like. My friends all said that i needed to stop flirting with him but i dinied it and they wont let me live it down. I need some help does anyone else consider that flirting too?
2007-07-06 07:41:05 · 23 answers · asked by cheerleading_band_geek 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is also a grade below me and wont go to the same school next year when i see him again.
2007-07-06 07:41:47 · update #1
it is flirting but i know whats going on. i accidently flirt all the time! some of us flirt a lot & cant stop because its just to fun! & actually i never know im doing it until my friends tell me im flirting. if he asks you out act like you had no idea he liked you. play it safe & dont hang out with him much b/c you migh tdo something you regret. remember you're not alone!
2007-07-06 07:48:48 · answer #1 · answered by Cassieee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It might not be flirting but, it doesn't look good considering the fact that you have a boyfriend. He might not like the fact that your leaning on the shoulder of another guy instead of his, you know. Think about it, how would you feel if you found out a girl was resting her head on Your boyfriends shoulder, or joking around with him all the time. Wouldn't you get a little annoyed by that.
2007-07-09 09:28:44 · answer #2 · answered by ~*~Piur Sweetness~*~ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well think if you were in your boyfriends shoes would you think he was flirting if he did this with a girl in a play? Always look at it as if, how would you react if he did the same. Sometimes helps to put things in perspective. I know i have a lot of guy friends and my bf doesn't understand it but guys are easier to talk to than women in some cases. Just put yourself in his shoes and think that way before you do something.. makes it alot realer....
2007-07-06 14:54:22 · answer #3 · answered by Don't make me beg!!! 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At my age, I'd call that casual flirting. You know, something you'd do with your friends or stranger and it's understood that it means nothing other than being friendly and having fun. At your age, think about what your boyfriend would say if he came across you acting that way. If he would have a problem with it, you should stop. If he would consider it harmless, then you're fine.
2007-07-06 14:49:36 · answer #4 · answered by Erin 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, it could be considered flirting. It would be a very good idea to ask your boyfriend what he thinks. You might also consider what message you might be sending the boy in the play. What you are doing could very well be considered flirting. You might not have been thinking that, but many people, if they want to flirt, will do exactly what you are doing.
2007-07-06 14:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by lend322 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the whole putting ur head on his shoulder isn't good if you have a bf cause a lot of ppl consider that flirting. even if u dont relize it. just try 2 ease it down a bit n make sure ur bf still gets the love 2!
2007-07-06 14:47:16 · answer #6 · answered by ♫KK♫ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes sweetie that is called flirting and if u really like and care about ur boyfriend u will stop or have the nerve to tell him and ask for a break untill u can figure things out with your self first
2007-07-06 14:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its 100% flirting girl. and try and stop flirting with him cuz hes not always goin to be there for you. if you have a relation ship with him you woulld end up liking him a lot and getting hurt when he leaves. so i am not saying dont talk to him but just keep it low.
2007-07-06 20:14:16 · answer #8 · answered by ihottie32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's def flirting, but when it comes to younger guys I aways have problems trying to figure out where to draw the line with them.
2007-07-06 14:45:51 · answer #9 · answered by Hannah Leigh 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its FLIRTING when you get physical contact like hold hands hug or put your head on his shoulders thats contact and yes its flirting
would you be ok if your BF was doing the same as you????
2007-07-06 14:46:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋