I have a boyfriend whom I love but the problem is I never see him and he never talks to me. And when I want to hang out with him hes always busy or something and everytime he talks to me I'm unsure if it's a lie or not. And I love him alot. We've been together 7 months but I'm unsure if I should end it and continue looking or to wait and see what happens?
2007-07-06 07:36:40 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
move on. you are more committed then he is. unless you are overstating this. does he work long hours and have multiple demands on his time? if so move on anyway because you will be too demanding for his lifestyle.
2007-07-06 07:40:36 · answer #1 · answered by BuddhaDaddy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That doesn't seem like much of a relationship to me if you really love him talk to him about it if no changes are made move on find someone that can give you the time and attention you deserve and need.
2007-07-06 14:42:22 · answer #2 · answered by Ben H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sit him down and let him know whats going on. it's not fair to just walk away b/c he may not realize how you feel. you need to give him the chance to turn it around. i think you should talk to him and give it a month. if he makes an effort to change then he's a good guy who obviously cares about how you're feeling. if he doesn't then just walk away. if he knows theres a possibility of losing you and he chooses not to get his act together anyway, then he wasnt the man for you.
2007-07-06 14:41:02 · answer #3 · answered by Amy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you never see him and he never talks to you guess what. He aint your boyfriend. Who has a b/f they never see or talk to. You havent been together for seven months, You have not been dating for seven months either. MOVE ON
2007-07-06 14:40:46 · answer #4 · answered by dave n 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Give him an ultimatum to spend more time with you or you will move on. Seven months is time for a commitment or a decision about your future.
2007-07-06 14:40:07 · answer #5 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pester him constantly for more attention, assume he can read your mind, be inconsistent in your responses to him and act like he owes you. You'll be rid of him very shortly.
2007-07-06 14:43:18 · answer #6 · answered by anotherbsdparent 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear, you've waited long enough .. just move on in life hopefully you'll find someone who cares more, and wants to spend time with you.
2007-07-06 14:40:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
welcome to my world :( confront him, thats what im trying to do ;)
2007-07-06 14:40:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋