Big chic with great smile & personality or stick chic with crappy attitude & nasty disposition? which do you prefer?
2007-07-06 07:08:10 · 9 answers · asked by havin fun 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shallow? Hold on a second... Believe it or not, women are pretty vain, too. There's plenty of women that date guys based on looks or money.
If these two are the ones I'm dealing with, I'd go for the big chick with a great personality. For me, I don't give a damn how good someone looks if they aren't a person that I can connect with or be around. That and I don't really go for the skinny types. I like someone with at least some meat on their bones =p
Allow me to chop your argument in half...
Aren't some big chicks the ones with a bad personality? Whereas many skinny chicks could be very nice people? That's the problem with making generalizations -they are almost always wrong to some extent.
2007-07-06 07:17:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First off, beauty is in the eye of the beholder. Some guys do think big chicks are attractive.
Secondly, be honest with yourself. Are you saying that you would date ANYBODY? Physical attraction plays a part in a relationship, whether you admit it or not. No need to be politically correct. I understand shallow as a person that doesn't care about anything inside. True, that's bad. But physical attractiveness is taken into consideration by everyone.
To answer your question, I'd pick the "big chic with great smile and personality". Even if I'm not physically attracted to her, we can be great friends.
2007-07-06 07:15:47 · answer #2 · answered by bluedevil1642 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I'm a guy, and I am NOT that shallow.
Looks may well be a person's calling card, but if said person cannot feed my mind, she's out of my life.
And I couldn't care less whether she's fat or thin.
A meeting of the minds is what I go for every time.
So stop with the generalisation, okay? I think you're a lot smarter than that.
2007-07-06 07:26:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Deep as a puddle for a Pinochio relationship.
Stick chic with personality and style for a proper relationship.
2007-07-06 07:13:26 · answer #4 · answered by Paul H 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look everyone is shallow (including u ladies) because it is only human nature to go for looks first. However, most guys want a girl with a good personality and wouldn't bother with a girl who is mean to everyone.
This is the way I look at it:
If she is really mean then she's not worth being with.
I think that most guys look at it this way.
2007-07-06 07:16:56 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmm. A nice two dimensional portrayal for us to work with.
And how shallow are you thinking? Are you implying men prioritize looks over size as a general principle.
People are different, deal with it.
2007-07-06 07:15:51 · answer #6 · answered by anotherbsdparent 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
some guys are really really shallow like that but there`s guys out there that aren`t shallow & are really really sweet. :] its hard to find them but thats what makes them so special. <3
2007-07-06 07:12:06 · answer #7 · answered by Taylor. 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
yes
2007-07-06 07:57:59 · answer #8 · answered by criss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Neither, I'm just having fun.
2007-07-06 07:11:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋