i'm 17 years old and i have noticed how my mom is extremelly negative.. and feels unconfortable around anybody outside of the family. She goes out, and acts insecure. she has had three jobs allready and she always quits because "she doesn't lke the people there". She also complains that the people she works with push her around. (in all three jobs). I told her tahat i didn't like her hair color and that it was too reddish.. and she ent to the store today asking the lady to look for hair die that is not reddish. In her last job.. she used to come home saying that her friend wears black shoes.. therefore she needs to buy those because those are "appropiate for this job". In other words, she can;t decide for herself(maybe because she thinks that it will be a bad decision)... seriulsy,, her self esteemi s really low.
Whow do i help her? should i tel her that i hink that she has low self esteem (she acts like she doen't), or should i just elp her gain it back without letting her know.
2007-07-06
07:00:09
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leoncita
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➔ Mental Health