2007-07-06 06:45:08 · 51 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, don't give in. Have dignity for yourself and hold on. Believe me, it's the best thing to do. *u*
2007-07-06 06:49:56 · answer #1 · answered by tres_leches_33 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Don't give in. It's peer pressure like it was in high school. Don't do it just because it's popular or you really want to find out how it feels. I'm also still a virgin and I'm not sorry. Of course there were a few special guys that I thought about doing it with but I never did and I'm kind of glad. My best friend is only nineteen and has a baby cause she didn't wait. She's not married, engaged, or have a boyfriend. The scum bag walked out on her when she told him. I wouldn't for your own sake.
2007-07-06 06:50:48 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
A significant other wil respect you more if you wait instead of deciding to put out so soon. Don't rush into it because you may find yourself regretting it later.
Maria: Don't go around telling people to sleep around just because you want to do that. Some of us have morals. You can't just sleep with random people as there are risks and consequences such as an unwanted pregnancy or STDs. At 19, I highly doubt that any people are fully ready to deal with the ramifications of either of those two factors.
2007-07-06 06:48:55 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I say you should not wait until you are married. Sex is just a physical act that many people attach emotions to. Do you believe that by saving yourself your future wife will give you extra kudos for it? That's not going to happen. She will not treat you better or be more likely to tolerate dumb **** from you just because you saved yourself. It isn't that big of a deal when you get right down to it.
Always practice safe sex, you don't want an STD or to get anyone preg. When you do meet the special person that you want to marry, you will know that you are compatible in bed as well as on all the other important issues like finances, children, or religion. Do you really want to say 'I do' and then find out that she is only willing to have sex in the missionary position?
2007-07-06 06:55:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
What's the reason that you want to wait until you are married?
This is what I think:
If you want to wait until you are married because you want to wait for true love...well think about it this way...how many divorced couples do you know? I know a bunch...Clearly it wasn't true love.
There is nothing wrong with being 19 and a virgin. Just make sure that your first time you do it...no matter if you are married or not when you do it...you do it with someone special. I wouldn't take it back for a second the person that I did it with...eventhough we broke up. However a friend of mine I know regretted doing it with the person she did it with...and she did it 4 years ago. Even till today she says "That's not the way I wanted to lose my virginity"
Although you are never 100% ready to do it...you just know. It is just one of those things that come to you when you are ready for it.
Don't rush it though...because I promise if you don't..it will mean so much more.
2007-07-06 06:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Cant believe im doing this 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, I'm a 20 yr old college girl & i'm still a Virgin. There are plenty of attractive people that I come across & it's tempting but I RESPECT & luv myself more than SEX.
SO I will continue to wait until marriage. Just Keep GoD in your life, & stay focused on your career & dreams. It Won't be that hard to wait. It can helkp to find a girl who is a virgin as well or who is waiting so ya'll will be on the same page.
God Bless :-)
2007-07-06 06:52:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
I would wait until I found the right person, its always best to do that to make sure they haven't just used you for one night then leave you. If you find someone you love then go for it but if you just want to get rid of it with anybody then thats not a good idea. I'm not saying wait until your forty but give it some time. Don't rush it.
2007-07-06 06:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
you say you want to wait until marraige...but it's sooo hard to wait????
that tells me that you do believe that the sexual act is more than just a physical connection...that it is something to be shared on a spiritual level, with someone that is on the same wavelength you are...that is when it is special and meaningful...
you will do as you will...but if you truly wish to wait...then occupy your mind with other things of a non-sexual nature...there's more than enough to keep a mind busy...and when you least expect it...you will find that right "someone"
2007-07-06 06:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am also a believer in waiting until marraige. I think you should wait. There are other things you can do physically that won't screw up your beliefs. Experiment in other ways. Not giving in will show how strong you are and how important your beliefs are to you.
2007-07-06 06:48:45 · answer #9 · answered by answergirl03 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO don't give in. You have waited this long you need to save yourself for marriage. If you give in with any old dead beat then you will REALLY regret it. When you do get married you will not be able to have as close of a relationship with your husband. Just think, somewhere out there your man is holding out for you. Good Luck!
2007-07-06 06:51:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Do not give in. I did wait until marriage and so did my husband. Let me tell you when you wait it shades you from so many regrets that can effect the relationship. I know when I am with my husband he is only thinking of me, and i never worry that he has had better. (not hat i have to. lol) really make it a point to give your husband all of yourself, because in the end it is completely worth the wait.
2007-07-06 06:50:09 · answer #11 · answered by Bragg Wmn 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋