He and his 2 yr old sister are here visiting and my husband and I have been doing a lot of things with them. But our G-son is afraid to do anything but his sister is up for any activity. We took them to “build a bear” and he wouldn’t do any of the activities, it’s frustrating and worrisome to us any ideas how to help him?
2007-07-06 06:27:24 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Toddler & Preschooler
Kids are all different, and actually both of my kids went through a phase like that at that age, it can be very frustrating, but they also pick up on your frustration and act out more. I would say "its OK you do not have to do it" and let it go, or ask him what he would like to do that he is not afraid of. He may be having a hard time being away from his parents and does not want to say that. Just be patient and understanding and see if you can get him to open up about it, who ever he is most comfortable with (you or your husband) should ask him about it alone, not around the other grandparent and not around his little sister. Sometimes a bit of alone time and kids will spill the beans, or ask him casually while playing a board game or something like that. If all else fails talk to his parents, they could ask him and let you know.
2007-07-06 06:50:11 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Coffee 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it isn't fear maybe he has autism. It's so common nowadays. Kids who don't seem interested in "normal" kid things usually have some form of it. Maybe he should see an occupational therapist. If it is truly fear then just leave him be. My friend's son was scared of everything right up till the age of 5 when suddenly he came out of his shell and is a typical brave little boy. he'll come around but respect his feelings. Imagine being in a world where everyday is filled with something new to get used to and it's all bigger than you are. Good luck
2007-07-06 13:35:29 · answer #2 · answered by . 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He may be overwhelmed by his change of environment. Ease up on your direct attention to him. When I've worked with kids going through episodes like what you describe, I find that giving them a lot of space, similar to ignoring them without neglect, gives them a feeling of confidence in approaching new people, faces and things. While I say "ignoring," of course you can still see and hear everything he is doing, but he feels less pressure. Hope it works out and that he "grows" through his apprehension. Blessings!
2007-07-06 13:50:15 · answer #3 · answered by Sleek 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you can ask his sister what he likes to do at home, and ease him into something that way.
2007-07-06 13:31:02 · answer #4 · answered by bibliophile31 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask him what he likes to do, or talk to his parents. maybe he's just shy.
2007-07-06 13:34:03 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋