My girlfriend has been going out lately and has been dancing with guys...now I know some people wouldn't take offense to this but I feel it to be disrespectful..my orignal question can be seen here ... http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AgAcUulqTPz1W3FUeE4NSwTsy6IX?qid=20070706051501AAD5Iy6 .....but after talking to her she told me that she understands what Im saying but feels as though I'm trying to change her and thats who she is. She said she is a party girl, which I understand and have no problem when she goes out but why is she compelled to dance with the opposite sex I just dont get it. No guy wants to get the mental image of his girl dancing with other guys... I respect her and care about her very much is there anything else I can do, this seems like a small quarrell but I feel strongly about it. Advice/help anyone!?!
2007-07-06 06:16:19 · 4 answers · asked by sickofthissite 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If this is something that really bothers you, then tell her how you feel and that she can't change that about you. You are fine with her going out, but you don't want her dancing with other guys. Be straight about it and tell her she either has to accept that about you just like you accept her the way she is. If she balks about that, then she is just trying to have her cake and eat it too.
2007-07-06 06:21:33 · answer #1 · answered by hotchic 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i am 22 and i ama party girl. But know i have meet the one for me and we take each other feeling in resecpt. I dont go out anymore i find differetn things to do and so does he. We do them together instead of apart. I learned that a a life in a bar or a club is no for a seriouly relationship unless doit it together. I love no goig ot the clubs anymore cause i have 100 time more fun with him... He gave up somethings to just so we would both be happy.. SO it ur decision ot be honest. YOu could just explain that you really dont like that she dances with other guys it make her look like she doesnt resecpt your feelings or you. Maybe she isnt ready for you are ready for... you have ot figure that out if this is what you want.
2007-07-06 13:23:39 · answer #2 · answered by e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to mr that she really does not care about you and it is clear you should break up with her.
2007-07-06 13:22:30 · answer #3 · answered by Kate T. 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you and i cared so much about the situation... i would just break up with her.
2007-07-06 13:19:41 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ natty 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋