My fiance and I have been living together for about 4 yrs now. He wants us to go to a club one night. I've never gone clubing. Bars yes but no clubbing.
Will it ruin our relationship?
I am afraid that it may because he tents to be insecure sometimes due to being cheated on before.
What do you think? Do you go to clubs with your bf/gf? Is it okay to or can it possibly harm the relationship?
2007-07-06 05:17:28 · 8 answers · asked by Itsme... 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I used to go when I was single with just girl friends. Now I am thinking he may just be testing me to see what I think. Don't know. He tends to get insecure if other guys stare at me or if I just glance at a guy, he sometimes thinks that I am trying to make I contact with other men. This happens when we go to random places. And I've never went clubbing with him so it worries me a bit. I don't want us to get into an argument or anything.
2007-07-06 05:42:40 · update #1
I go frequently. Just remember your there for and with him. Let everyone know he has the best eyecandy in the place and that you are willing to take care of him anytime
2007-07-06 05:27:06 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Must be the thing to break you from your fear,,,, see the club is where ppl meet ppl and there is plenty of room for getting it with another couple,,,, no i am not injecting fear in you but it must be a physcological thing for you to do,,, the fear of letting your fiance out there in the open and letting go the fear of being cheated,,, u dont want that to spoil your life with your fiancee rite ???? try it please, you cannot control ppl. sometimes the only control you got over your life is giving up control and let nature control you,,, think about it,, its not you who choose your parents, your nationality,sex,love, it was all nature,,,why dont you let nature guide you ? it has give you everything until now,,, why dont u learn how to trust it,, the heartbeat you have now that keeps you living is from nature,,, so let go of your fear and live your life to fullest,, if you really love your fiance then you should let him free and beleive him,, what the point of being fearfull in a relationship ?? come on , you can die tommorow u know ? my point is enjoy the moment now without worrying something that might not happen,,so what if it happens ? i mean u r not gonna lose your life,, come on dear,,,pls dont be affraid,at the end of the day nature takes care of us,,its only our expectation of life that gets our heart hurt,,,let go and chant om,,, ha ha sorry a little hindu hippie thoughts back there
2007-07-06 05:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG, you have to try it. Trust me, it is soo much fun. I love to go clubbing with my man. We have been together for 5 years now and it is such a rush to be able to grind on your man in the club. Trust me, if you work it right, he wont have time to look at any other girls. Make it like a date where you flirt with him and concentrate all your attention on him. Tease him and when your done on the dance floor, go home and finish what you started! Girl trust me, you will have a blast.
2007-07-06 05:22:25 · answer #3 · answered by aim4perfection18 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's a great idea, you both should go and enjoy yourselves, going clubbing can stimulate the both of you in ways you've never felt before, or it could backfire, but I think it's just another stepping stone for you two to become even closer.
2007-07-06 05:22:42 · answer #4 · answered by ♥preciousluv♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tough call, especially if he's been cheated on in the past...
He's the one who wants to go right?
Ask him if he thinks he'd feel insecure about the whole thing.
2007-07-06 05:20:37 · answer #5 · answered by NoEgo 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both comfortable in your own skins and with each other you should be able to go anywhere you chose.
2007-07-06 05:23:59 · answer #6 · answered by acmeraven 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you should therez no harm in clubbing and i dont see how it can harm your relationship
2007-07-06 05:21:27 · answer #7 · answered by kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats good. u must try. maybe its can make ur relationship more twinkle twinkle ;-)
2007-07-06 05:33:50 · answer #8 · answered by irwandiaz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋