Everything is all mixed up now. My best guy friend put the moves on me. We kissed. He got weird, so I said " Can I just go back to being an awesome girl, whose like your sister" he said yes. Then he picked a fight with me saying I was chasing the girls he brought back to the shore house away with dirty looks. I DID NOT!! I was relieved to be back in the friend zone. I dont know what his deal is, but I want to know if ever really was possible in the first place... I Love him so much. And now I feel like I'm losing him ...
2007-07-06 02:40:08 · 17 answers · asked by *Mrs. Butler* 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I've never loved him like ' a brother' I've only ever loved him. It's how we ended every conversation - with 'I Love You'.
And the kiss was passionate and intense.
2007-07-06 03:02:51 · update #1
Best friends usually make the best lovers.
2007-07-06 02:42:14 · answer #1 · answered by Scotty Doesnt Know 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you have a brother sister relationship then no romance, thats just weird and kinda creepy. But boyfriend and bestfriend is one in the same.My boyfriend is my best friend;) And you probably did give those girls dirty looks and totally didnt even realize.But i wasnt there so if you really didnt, he may have said that cuz thats what he wants you to admit. He wants you to be jealous cuz he likes you. It dosnt sound like either of you know what you want. He put the moves on you but felt weird after, so he just wanted to see. Like a gay guy kissing a girl (just to make sure) You two need to talk about it honestly, sober and soon. good luck
2007-07-06 09:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by e.kess 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you liked him in the first place why did you want to go beck to the friend zone... but yes I am currently going out with my best friend. it seems less 'weird' at times because we know eachother. It lets us be more honest and open with our relationship. And sometimes when you get married the people who get married pick fights so they can make up and have sex. Maybe he thought it would work. And you should go for him because he wouldn't put the moves on you if he didn't like you.
2007-07-06 09:48:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It can definitely work. A lot of times is best to start out as friends and then move on to more. You already know so much about eachother, you won't start in that awkward "have to get to know eachother phase." You'd have the best of both worlds. You'd have your best friend as your lover...how great would that be?
2007-07-06 09:46:49 · answer #4 · answered by JuneBug 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
most of the time, best friends make the better couples. You two already know eachother well, so you guys know what you do, and do not have in common. Plus, you know that you get along well. Now, honestly ask yourself, when you two kissed, did it feel good? Or did it feel all wrong?
good luck!
2007-07-06 09:48:50 · answer #5 · answered by brookee. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Until you know yourself and what you really want just go with the flow, or you could lose the chance of having a best friend or romantic love.
2007-07-06 09:59:16 · answer #6 · answered by Ruthie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes best friends can be lovers, it can be a great advantage if you go into with the right attitude. Friendship holds together relationships longer than sexual attraction.
2007-07-06 09:42:49 · answer #7 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's not comfortable being that close to you. Give him more space. Concentrate on just being his friend right now. If he wants more, he'll take the initiative because he already knows you're interested.
2007-07-06 09:44:12 · answer #8 · answered by artsy_lovely_lady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most successful friendships between boys and girls mainly end up with successful relationships if love conquered their hearts.
Been into that and currently enjoying its glamour.
2007-07-06 09:43:12 · answer #9 · answered by Sara007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes me and my bf were really close friends then i aked him out and we have been together for 7 months so try and work things out wit him u never know what will happen just take chances
2007-07-06 09:45:07 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋