why do guys like virgins?

Question

when i first told my fiance i was a virgin he was surprised cuz of my age.... he says its cuz i still have my innocence ..................
also; guys, why do you prefer/not prefer being with a virgin

Answer 1

i prefer a virgin because i am a virgin. For the girlabove me that said the said would be better, my reply is true sex comes first from the soul, then goes out into the body. I wouldnt want some ho-ho that gave her body to any guy. This means that sex is just a meaningless , instinctive act of pure luct to her and nothing else.

Answer 2

Some guys actually prefer experience because the sex is usually better. Some guys have weird hang-ups about something being "used". Others are just creepy and crap in bed so they target virgins.

Answer 3

I don't particularly find virgins very attractive as sexual partners. When I was young, I dated and had sex with two virgins and both were very passive and tentative during sexual intimacy. I have found that sex is much better with a woman that are experienced. I want my lover to feel comfortable with her body and knowledgeable how to please me as her lover, which only comes from experience.

I don't understand the idea of "innocence". Unless a man is insecure with himself or his sexual prowess, I don't think it matters if your lover has been with someone else.

I also read an article that speculated that virgins were more likely to be unfaithful to their partners because their curiosity gets the better of them, which makes sense to me.

Answer 4

Most guys like virgins just to say they was the first break that girl in then other would say they treat her like a queen only if that's a sweet guy who really care for you.

Answer 5

Guys like the idea of being with a virgin because most of us are so insecure. We don't like thinking about how we compare to you're previous lovers.

The thing guys don't like about true virgins is that they don't really know what they are doing. It takes a while for them to get comfortable having sex (oral - anal - vaginal - etc).

A lot of women claim to be virgins when they aren't. They have had oral or anal sex - just not vaginal.

Answer 6

Because I'm a virgin and it would be great if I could actually find a decent female that is as well... It's hard to do these days. To me, it shows values and a willingness to defy today's society. But I've dated girls that weren't...

Answer 7

except she is lacking in libido, she probable would not want to have intercourse with you for a reason. perhaps she would not want make investments a notch off her bedpost for somebody this is genuinely no longer there for her sooner or later? or perhaps she would not love, considering if she fairly cared and concept that she would not discover somebody else such as you ever, she'd placed funds right into a protracted-distance relationship. or possibly you have slightly dick, and she or he would not want to waste her time with you. All i understand is that if I enjoyed somebody, i would not want to waste a 2nd together with her till she's no longer there anymore.

Answer 8

most guys like being witha virgin because then they know they are the first one to leave their mark on you in that way

its like a wolf marking its territory so all other males stay away

its a primitive instinct thing


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Answer 9

Simple Answer, and I know its Very Playa

Used goods,
Other guys Have had it...

Virginity is a hgue thing to girls, Guys feel amazeing if you have picked them to lose it to

My 2 cents :)

Answer 10

Some prefer them because they are not used. Same thing with cars.

It really doesn't matter, though. As long as you really want to be with her (and she's not a total slut), then it's all good.