Im married and about to have a kid. The bf who came before my husband died 4 years ago. Last night, I dreamt of my late bf. He's face and expression was really vivid. In my dream, I hugged and kissed him on the cheek and he said "I should not be forgotten and should be continuously be loved." What does this mean?
2007-07-06 00:44:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Dream Interpretation
There is something missing in your life. Projecting your late bf in dream symbolized something you are seeking and you want to make it up. In other words, maybe your husband does not give you enough satisfaction in life. Subconsciously, you are seeking for replacement symbols in your mind. Somehow your late bf could remind you that good time and the gratification you had when you were with him.
It had nothing to do about you having desire cheating your husband. It is just a release of your current situation, maybe discontent or some minor argument
2007-07-06 02:29:05 · answer #1 · answered by YourDreamDoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To see the dead in your dream, forewarns that you are being influenced by negative people and are hanging around the wrong crowd. You may suffer material loss. This dream may also be a way for you to resolve your feelings with those who have passed on.
If you dream of a person who has died a long time ago, then it suggests that a current situation or relationship in you life resembles the quality of that deceased person. The dream may depict how you need to let this situation or relationship die and end it.
2007-07-06 07:50:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
To dream about your ex-boyfriend/girlfriend or ex-husband/wife, suggests that something or someone in your current life that is bringing out similar feelings you felt during the relationship with your ex. The dream may be a way of alerting you to the same or similar behaviour in a current relationship. What you learn from that previous relationship may need to be applied to the present one so that you do no repeat the same mistake. Alternatively, past lovers often highlight the positive experiences you had with that person. In particular, to see your ex-husband/wife in your dream, indicates that you are finding yourself in a situation that you do not want to be in. It suggests that you are experiencing a similar relationship or situation which makes you feel unhappy and uncomfortable. To see your ex in your dream also signifies aspects of yourself that you have crossed out or neglected.
To see the dead in your dream, forewarns that you are being influenced by negative people and are hanging around the wrong crowd. You may suffer material loss. This dream may also be a way for you to resolve your feelings with those who have passed on. To see and talk with your dead father in your dream, signifies that you are about to enter into an unlucky transaction or rotten deal. Thoroughly think through your decisions before entering into them.
To dream about the death of a loved one, suggests that you are lacking a certain aspect or quality that the loved one embodies. Ask yourself what makes this person special or what do you like about him. It is that very quality that you are lacking in your own relationship or circumstances. Alternatively, it indicates that whatever that person represents has no part in your own life.
2007-07-08 11:57:33 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever we are going through life changing times, our subconscious categorizes that into a special area set just for those moments. So when we sleep and our subconscious takes center stage, you may recall another life changing moment, person, place, thing, etc. because that file is freshly opened. It is normal. You may even find yourself waking with a heartache or exceptionally happy and not know why...because you don't remember. I believe your ex was an important part of your life and in your subconscious for always. It was not your ex saying these things to you...it was you saying these things out loud through his image. You will always remember him and love him...as you should. Congratulations on the baby!!
2007-07-06 10:39:13 · answer #4 · answered by PrettyMommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a deception sent to you from the devil. The bible talks about dead people do not come back to hold conversation. The devil will also give you dreams in order to bring confusion into your life. If you keep thinking about your dead boyfriend all the time, your thoughts will eventually lead to some kind of conflict with your new relationships. I would completely ignore that dream.
2007-07-06 13:43:29 · answer #5 · answered by super saiyan 3 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's your minds way of connecting with him even though he's not around anymore. Even though he's not here doesn't mean you don't care for him and he's reminding you that he's still around and probably feels the same. And then maybe whatever kid you have should be named after him in some way. Just a guess.
2007-07-06 07:52:26 · answer #6 · answered by Craven Moorehead 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you are afraid that the memory and love you felt for your late bf will fade with time and you are feeling guilty about this.
but the dream seemed nice..as if you were promising yourself that you will never forget this person that meant so much to you:)
2007-07-06 10:33:15 · answer #7 · answered by gigi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The dream is the extension of desire in the wake up condition, if you will think about your boy friend in the normal wake up condition he will indeed come in to your mind while dreaming. Your dream indicates that you still love him and desire that he still love you.
2007-07-06 07:59:17 · answer #8 · answered by raman v 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It means you are not over him in your mind. Nothing can change that but yourself. You are remembering only the good things about him...not any of the bad.
2007-07-06 07:54:17 · answer #9 · answered by sarah m 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it means that you should name your kid after him. (if its a boy) and if you do, then you should always love ure son.
2007-07-06 09:57:05 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋