I am over here in Asia and I have a BF who is in the army. He is not an American and I love him very much and he knows this. I want to have a home teacher to tutor me the language. language exchange not so serious. Just bored at home so my friend found me the teacher.The teacher is a guy. I told my BF this and I think he is worried but I did assure him its nothing. The teacher also wanted to go swimming with me I told this to my BF I don't think he wants me to go am I wrong to tell my BF this..I just tell him everything. I know he is busy but when I send him things he lets me know in his own way he got the things. And he will leave his cellphone on 24/7 now so I can send him messages.
2007-07-06 00:12:24 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he is with someone else right now
listen closely you can hear him
2007-07-06 00:14:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is natural for a man and woman to be attracted to each other. Especially when they have the same interests. Hanging out and working one on one with someone is a way to get closer. Look at the stats of people who cheat with work mates. It's not that you want it to happen, but many times it does.
If I were you, I would not put myself in that situation. I would find a woman tutor. You would be getting the same education and that would cure all uneasy feelings you man has, as well as, prevent future problems. Furthermore, it will show him just how much you love and respect him.
Another thing, if you found a male tutor and you actually like his company and this is a way to cure your loneliness you better take a look at yourself and the direction you are headed
So, to answer your question...
No, you are not wrong to tell him you are wrong to want to go and even ask him. Maybe you just want his attention and jealously. Find some girlfriends they like to swim too! Luck.
2007-07-06 07:26:29 · answer #2 · answered by Jaab 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you torturing him like that? Isn't it bad enough that he can not be with you right now. If you continue to do this, he will believe that you are not faithful, and end up being with someone else. Just tell him the necessary things, and that you love and respect him. The rest need not be said unless he asks.
2007-07-06 07:18:13 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF he has no reason to mis trust u, he wont! I think, YOU are more worried by this than he is.
However, I would keep your relationship with your tutor professional & do not cross any boundaries! He should not have asked you to go swimming or any non educational trip!
2007-07-06 07:18:15 · answer #4 · answered by Carol x 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are good in telling your b/f these things. It is very hard to keep long distance relations. I don't think you should go swimming with another man. He is there to tutor you, not date you.
2007-07-06 07:17:04 · answer #5 · answered by dude 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He didnt say anything because he doesnt like the idea of you running around with your 'teacher' Men normally shy down and stay quiet when something like this comes up...but your mistake...he prolly said forget it and actually is with someone else and doesnt want to think about your stupidity...your grown up right? do you think its right or wrong?
2007-07-06 07:21:55 · answer #6 · answered by Sandy B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should be honest with your bf. If you think bf is getting jealous, you should avoid meeting with your tutor socially. Hang out with your other friends instead.
2007-07-06 07:18:53 · answer #7 · answered by Beth Rorie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no you are right to tell him this he need to know. he wants you to tslk to him and tell him things otherwise he wouldnt keep his phone on!. dont go swimming with your teacher you should tell him that you are taken. maybe you should et another teacher. prob female then your bf duznt have to worry bowt you so much. he trusts you but not him (your teacher)
2007-07-06 07:17:43 · answer #8 · answered by kimmy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Armies are number one flirts. He is having a gf over there and if she gives it better than , you are going to loose him forever, worst again that you do not hear each other.
2007-07-06 07:23:45 · answer #9 · answered by patrick w 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there
I would advise you to let your heart decide what you feel is the right decision to be taken - whatever be the consequences, face it without guilt.
Take care.
A
2007-07-06 07:27:35 · answer #10 · answered by amal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋