please help me!,
i know im a sinner, i know jesus died for me. i sin continually, i want to obey God, i want to know that im saved, but since i sin continually its obvious i dont have he holy spirit in me ...please help me
2007-07-05 17:35:40 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Hey Lil Bunny...
You are letting your fears run away with you...like a little scared bunny!
First, we are ALL sinners.
Second, nothing that you are feeling is not what every Christian has felt at some point or another, so you are not alone.
Third, the Holy Spirit is given as a deposit...guaranteed salvation. You ARE able to grieve the Holy Spirit with sin, yes. But, the only way to lose the Holy Spirit is if you actively denied Christ (as a believer) and turned against Him. Just because you sin, and sin continually - does not mean you denied the faith. It means you are just as human as the rest of us.
What I did when I went through these feelings, was to get quiet and pray. Pray about all that I was feeling to the Lord. I told him of my unbelief, and how frustrated I am that I keep sinning. Other people in the bible have asked God to help them with their unbelief, so I have followed this example and prayed this way too. They did this to help them overcome those kinds of feelings and fears.
The other thing that you need to do... is remove the temptations of your sin. Prepare yourself. Set yourself up for success. For Example: If you know that you are gonna swear at traffic while you are running late in the morning... get up earlier, and drive slower. Then you will not be in the situation that causes you to swear so much. If you know you will drink if you go to that party with your buddies from work, then be the designated driver - or simply do not go! Do things proactively to help you be true, and pure before God.
You say you want to love Christ... honey, you do. You became a Christian - and you followed Him. Think through what is causing you to struggle so much, the sin you are struggling with - that is. I would suggest you talk to an older Christian woman who can pray with you and disciple you. That will provide you with some accountability. Kind of like going on a diet, and writing down all the things you are eating to keep track of the calories. It helps you pay attention to the patterns of poor choices, and face the reality of how much you are eating. Accountability with another Christian does the same for us regarding our sinful behaviors.
Read your bible, and pray... really read, and really pray. Be honest with God, and with yourself. And, then do as He says about giving Him your burdens. When I know I need to give up my burdens I pray this way when I go to bed, "God, you know how I feel. I am frustrated about ________ and I cannot do this anymore. I do not have the strength to do this... so, I am taking you at your word that I can give this to you. It is your burden now..." If I say these words, I allow my heart and mind to believe it, completely. Everytime I pray like this, I am able to relax, and sleep. When I wake up, I feel refreshed, and I really believe it is because He did take that burden off my mind and heart. He took over... it gives me new perspective and energy to do the right things.
God bless you...
2007-07-05 18:04:18 · answer #1 · answered by debi_lockwood 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are on the right track! You acknowledge you are a sinner; you are humble; you are repentant and wish to turn away from your sin. You acknowledge that Jesus Christ is the messiah and you believe in his sacrificial death that can redeem you in God's eyes.
Every believer sins; even those that have the best relationship with God still fall short from time to time.
The difference between them and the rest of humanity is that they are convicted about what they do; they pray for forgiveness and repent.
You can tell when you truly have the Holy Spirit in you when you feel a spiritual hunger and longing for God and His word. Be patient; read the Bible, pray, and wait for God. He is waiting for you, too!
2007-07-05 17:43:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kayla 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
We all are sinners and we all have to start somewhere in changing our lives. Start studying your Bible and find a church that teaches what the Bible says (so many are manmade and not by God's design). Go to church and get involved in some Bible studies so you can start learning how to overcome sin and be around others who will encourage you to stay strong. That doesn't mean you won't still sin because we all do, that's our human nature, but you will find yourself getting stronger as you continue to change yourself to be a better person.
God bless you. Don't ever give up, just keep trying harder to do the right thing.
2007-07-05 17:45:48 · answer #3 · answered by KittyKat 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The apostle Paul had the same problem. He knew what was right, but often found himself doing what was wrong.
Repent of your sins, ask for forgiveness in the name of Jesus Christ. Commit your life to Jesus and receive the power of the Holy Spirit.
It doesn't mean that you'll never sin again, but you will have His grace to cover you.
2007-07-05 17:41:48 · answer #4 · answered by sdb deacon 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, all Christians are struggling with sins. even for me. i know its really hard, and life as a christian was NEVER going to be easy but i guess you have to pray for it. pray for forgiveness for your sins, pray that you will feel the holy spirit. and every prayer is powerful.
actually, holy spirit is already in you ( it had nothing to do with sinning continuously too.) , perhaps it just take time to feel it. how about letting church to pray for you? i can pray for you . But ask yourself: do you REALLY trust in Jesus? love and accept Him in your life? well, these things is the best to talk with a pastor. cos i dun know who you are but i could help and give some advice. but just remember also HAVE FAITH! God bless!
2007-07-05 18:04:15 · answer #5 · answered by kel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have accepted Jesus into your heart and repented (or changed your mind about sin)..then God promised to save you. Living the Christian life is a daily process. Even the apostle Paul said "the things that I would not do..those I do and the things that I would do..those I do not do." He said "who shall save me from this?"...and his answer was Jesus. Each day, we turn to Jesus for His strength and power and confess our need for Him. Thank Him that we do not struggle to earn salvation, but to walk in a way that pleases and honors Him.
2007-07-05 17:45:17 · answer #6 · answered by Jlk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you could quote the whole situation. D&C one hundred thirty: 3 3. John 14:23—The appearing of the daddy and the Son, in that verse, is a private visual attraction; and the thought that the daddy and the Son stay in a guy’s coronary heart is an previous sectarian theory, and is fake. Hes in basic terms speaking approximately that verse And Alma 34 dosen't contadict that, in case you study the whole situation. Alma 34: 36 36 And this i comprehend, via fact the Lord hath reported he dwelleth no longer in unholy temples, yet interior the hearts of the righteous doth he stay; yea, and he has additionally reported that the righteous shall take a seat down in his kingdom, to bypass not extra out; yet their clothing could be made white for the duration of the blood of the Lamb.
2016-09-29 04:26:46 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We all fail, especially if we try to obey God in our own power. Click on the link. It is a spiritual tune up. It is very helpful.
God bless and I'll pray for you.
2007-07-05 17:41:46 · answer #8 · answered by fireman9982 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please, read Rick Warren's book " Purpose Driven Life" and find yourself a church you want to attend regularly. Pray about it and study His word.
2007-07-05 17:40:10 · answer #9 · answered by Nina, BaC 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋