should i date someone that does pot...?

Question

if i dont want to do it. he is really nice and cute. same age as me to. he doesnt do it like everyday....he is a partier to. what r yur xperiences with ppl like this

Answer 1

no. He's a loser and you should date someone who is worth your time.

Answer 2

Hi Girl! To be honnest, I have no bad experiences so far in my life with people who only smokes a joint now and then. As a matter of fact, I like them better than drunk people. As an ex-musician who used to play "everywhere" I have seen the most, but pot-smokers are easy and never do any bad stuff. However, the way further are very close, and a lot do take something else after a while, and then problems are close by. As you don`t say how old you are it is somehow difficult to say anything, but as a rule, the younger you are, the easier you should take it, meaning as long as the use don`t go up and become a daily event, you should be safe enough. I would think about one more thing though, and that is that if you are living in Holland everything is OK, but most places it is forbidden to smoke you know, meaning the you have to seek criminals to get the stuff. Thing is one thing can so easy drag more with it, meaning the dealers are after your money, and usually will sell whatever they got to anybody with money. That is OKìsh as long as you got the will to be hard and say no to all other sh.t they might offer you. But I know many people who`s been drunk and got them selves something complete different than the pot they were after. All in all, I guess if you are aware of all the traps there is, and have a strong mind of your own, you can do that. But I would be careful, and not start to smoke yourself before you are 100% sure that you know what you do. Many people I know have become paranoid of it, some have gone further and most of them are dead, and a few are still smoking and having fun, me myself and I quit many years ago, I miss it from time to time, but the world is best viewed sober and not stone or drunk.BUT I would rather have smokers on a party, than a gang of drunk bas..rds, that I will admitt, they say peace you know. Good luck, peace and love from Norway

Answer 3

It seems almost impossible to find someone who doesn't do pot these days, doesn't it? Where do you see yourself in 5 years?10 years? Does he have goals and seem to finish what he starts. Take a deeper look at him, then decide. I know lots of good, hard working people that drink and smoke but for every 1 that doesn't let pot control their life, I know 4 that does. And remember, it is illegal so you will need to be prepared for any of those situations.

Answer 4

I went out with a boy and I didn't know until 2 months into the relationship that he did pot, because we hardly ever saw each other. I don't know if it was just this guy but it was totally not worth it. All I got out of it was that I learned from my mistakes. Being with him when he was high was one of the worst feelings I can imagine. I wanted nothing to do with it. He might end up putting you and friends off to smoke pot. And that will show just how little he cares. My advice is - it's not worth it.

Answer 5

If you DON'T do pot, and are not interested in that, then DON'T date him. If you like pot, then you might want to date him. Know that for some people pot comes first. Don't think the person will be totally responsible with you regardless of the pot. The pot comes first for them.

Answer 6

What he does is illegal..if he ever wanted to get a really good job he would'nt have a very good chance of it,most employers do drug tests prior to hiring and random drug tests as well..and umm yeah marijauna is addicting..I've known people who have done it 3 times a day or more..it becomes a habit..they always wanna be high..and the more they get high,the higher their tolerance gets..find someone who is clean it's just less complicated that way..

Answer 7

I have been in ur position let me say this dont date him cuz most likely ull fall into it thats wut i did... and his moods will change and he will treat u reallly bad one second and then really good... partiers gosh come on we all party sometimes so thats fine.. but the thing is hes prolly using u just if u date him do not FALL IN LOVE WITH HIM its never pretty..cuz i did and i regret it with all my heart and sould.. ne more tips email me @ [e-mail]

Answer 8

Sweetie I dated a guy that come to find out that does pot and theirs nothing wrong with that has long has he treats you good. has long has he doesn't spend his entire paycheck on it and he doesn't crave for it. I've been dating this guy for 4 yrs and he goes to work everyday, pays his bills, treats me right, etc.... and we both still smoke. when i first got with him i didn't do it either and he never made me try it. he told me it was my choice that he didn't care. so has long has that guy leaves it up to you to try it, puts all his priorities first then it's OK.

Answer 9

people who do pot doesn't have it right in the head. if he doesn't care enough about his own life, he sure as hell won't be able to serious treat you well and care for you.

you should try not to get involved. it might just be once in awhile now, but you never know in future.

Answer 10

NO!! All Drugs are Bad.Dont take a chance of liking him to much then just trying it one time then getting addicting the dieing!!

Answer 11

run away and run FAST!!! honey he will bring you down, there are plenty of good guys that will respect you and won't do pot. He's a loser and he shouldn't get a girl. especially not a girl like u!