I have this friend and he is a guy and every time I talk to him he stares at my chest. I try to put my books in front of them or cross my arms but he keeps staring. It's kind of like he is looking into space or past them, but some times it looks like he is so interested in my boobs hes not even listening to what I'm saying. There not even big! What do I do?
2007-07-05 15:49:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't really want to tell him directly to stop becuase I'm not really sure he is or not but I dont want to ask him....
2007-07-05 15:58:52 · update #1
don't tell him to stop he'll feel awakward. Be flattered that your attractive looking. He's a guy that's what they do.
2007-07-05 16:31:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do you wear revealing clothing? If so, perhaps you could tone down your attire to not be so appealing to a man's eye. If you dress modestly, then perhaps you should ask him what he values most, your friendship or staring at your chest?
2007-07-05 23:05:13 · answer #2 · answered by Jonby 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lean down and tilt your head so you're now looking him in the face and say the following:
My boobs aren't talking to you. Try looking me in the face.
If you're really brassy, you can stare at his crotch and talk to him.
Both have worked for me.
2007-07-05 22:54:26 · answer #3 · answered by Kaia 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Smack him upside his head!
No, seriously! You need to bring it to his attention that it bothers you. He might be doing it subconsciously! If you let him know it makes you uncomfortable, he should stop! If not, then you DO have a problem!
2007-07-05 22:55:12 · answer #4 · answered by Matt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you really need to tell him that it makes you very uncomfortable that he keeps staring at your chest, and that if he didn't change, you wouldn't consider him friend again.
2007-07-05 23:03:24 · answer #5 · answered by dreamland 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
politely ask him to sop staring at your chest and he cannot handle being respectful tell him you are not comfortable being friends with him anymore, that should sober him up.
2007-07-05 22:55:38 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say show them to him, just one time.
2007-07-05 23:00:44 · answer #7 · answered by rick s 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Keep on starring at his dick back and see how he reacts.
2007-07-05 22:55:16 · answer #8 · answered by phone_man_at_work 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋