2007-07-05 15:02:35 · 26 answers · asked by amber p 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
too much drama to begin with, but you are married. why would you need to know what to do...love, honor, (some cant be obeyed). anyway, as many men as there are in this world, even if you chose to do something as cruddy and stupid as cheating on your husband, why with the ex/husbands best friend? you don't need a crystal ball to know it wont end well. so after you "get back" he's supposed to wait for the divorce, marry you and live happily ever after? uh...no. more than likely he'll sleep with you, make sure your husband knows he "won", then kick you to the curb after telling you he'll never be able to trust you. honor your commitment and leave the past in the past. it's NEVER worth it.
2007-07-05 15:22:40 · answer #1 · answered by kimm24seven 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you. Do you want him back? I sure hope not, because that would cause a terribly uncomfortable situation, as I'm sure it already is. If you don't want him back, and are happily married, tell him you just that: you are happy with (best friend) and can't risk ruining that by letting (your ex) bring up past feelings. It didn't work out for a reason, so I'm thinking if you were into the best friend enough to marry him, there must be more there to hold the relationship together.
2007-07-05 22:07:23 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hello? You are married, it's not like in high school where you just give a ring back or something. You signed a paper for better or worse. This is worse. Where was tardo before you married his best friend? No, lets not trash it up here. I'm assuming you loved your guy, thats why you are married, what has happened? Tell your ex to shove off.
2007-07-05 22:15:58 · answer #3 · answered by non o u biznis 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you are asking this question says a lot about you, and none of those things are good either. It also says that you have a few issues to work out. 1st off I don't think you should be with your ex's best friend and do not...DO NOT go back with your ex.
2007-07-05 22:08:38 · answer #4 · answered by answergirl03 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're the only one who knows what you should do, however marriage is something you are committed to presently, therefore you should not see the ex as long as you are married. Many people want what they don't have. They like the challenage. I'd question whether this ex fits into this set of people.
Meanwhile,I'd break connect with the ex, and give myself one year to decide what I want to do.
2007-07-05 22:12:15 · answer #5 · answered by pattimaris1675@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whaddia mean "what should I do" If you are asking, then I feel sorry for the man that married you. You obviously are not happily married or you would know what to do....cheee if there are no children involved...get a grip and let your husband out of this sham and go ahead...go back with the old B.F...it sounds like maybe you two deserve one another....
2007-07-05 22:09:13 · answer #6 · answered by wahoo 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no! he's an ex for a good reason. If you get back with him you will truly regret it. You might even end up with no one in the end. Then they will be calling you a ho. Sorry just being honest. Also if he was worth it you would of never married his bestfriend.
2007-07-05 22:09:09 · answer #7 · answered by champain123 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What do you mean ??? WHAT SHOULD YOU DO?????
Didn't you just tell everyone that you are MARRIED>>>???
Do you have any options??????
What are they.....??
Have an affair???
Leave Your Husband????
Get a Divorce????
Amongst numerous other nasty things you could do toyour HUSBAND>>>>???
WHAT SHOULD YOU DO?????
You know what you should do..... Tell your husband all about it.....about your doubts ... as TO WHAT YOU SHOULD DO????
See how long he hangs there for.....maybe he'ss give you an answer.... do ya think???
Good luck>>>>
(man is that ever mkashfoyhjtvs;iehtlkshf.....)
Oh did I type that????
I gues I was typing out loud....
2007-07-05 22:09:15 · answer #8 · answered by Traynor 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG..why do we have to answer this for you...hello!!! YOUR MARRIED TO HIS BEST FRIEND...why did u get married if you were unsure...geez...hello...dont waste a good relationship on someone you broke up with already...if your husband is good to you, then be happy with that...i mean, whats the point right...
2007-07-05 22:06:24 · answer #9 · answered by ...oh... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your married. There's nothing you can do. Just tell your ex your not interested in him anymore.
2007-07-05 22:05:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋