i dont think my family approve because i have made some stupid mistakes in my life but he is the one for me he is willing to take care of the baby he wants it really bad im 17 he is 19 and i love him too much what should i do
2007-07-05 15:02:03 · 12 answers · asked by pinkgodest 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
me and him both have good jobs i want it to
2007-07-05 15:16:02 · update #1
DONT have the baby...Are you ready? do you have a job? Do you have a place to live alone? What happens if your boyfriend decides he doesnt wanna be with you anymore? What if he leaves you or cheats? Are these things your ready for? You know he can go to jail...You are NOT 18...dont rush into having a baby...what the hell...your still young and have so much more to accomplish than to get pregnant at 17...trust me...i got pregnant at 16...i am not regreting, i love my kids more than life...but i learned that it was TOO soon...and my so called "man" left me...so dont think older guys are all sweet and romantic and wanna have a baby to show love...NO!
2007-07-05 15:17:02 · answer #1 · answered by ...oh... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you have to think very carefully. a baby is a human being, not a pet. you don't want one on impulse. it's a very selfish behavior. you have to be very sure that you can give him a normal, healthy family life. there are a lot of cases in America that young couples have babies before marriage and they break up 2 or 3 years later. A broken family can have a big impact on the life of a kid. be a responsible parent and a responsible person.
2007-07-05 15:25:30 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it might. In reality, it is a necessity that he has a vehicle seat for the little one. Personally, I do not consider any person who does not even get anything as relevant as a vehicle seat for his little one is have compatibility to have unsupervised/in a single day visitation, however that is an extra tale. Go to Toys R Us/Babies R Us and ask a revenue rep for support. Tell her or him the little one's age, and he/she will have to be equipped to support you uncover an right one. This is not a only a first-rate factor for the dad, it is a first-rate and RESPONSIBLE factor for the little one. I'm sorry, nevertheless it should be mentioned - I believe so unhappy for the little one that a lady who has in no way even met him is taking the time to fear approximately his protection while the possess father does not. What if the little one acquired ill within the center of the night time and needed to pass to the ER? What if any other little minor emergency got here up, and the dad used to be not able to correctly delivery him? It's unlawful for a little one to journey in a vehicle with out a correct vehicle seat. If Dad attempts to, PLEASE make an nameless name to DSS; the little one's lifestyles will depend on it.
2016-09-05 16:02:11 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd have to say that i agree with your family... there's no rush to get into a family right now, you guys are both still young, and these are the years that you should be enjoying...maybe in a couple of years, you would have grown into people mature enough to care for a baby...
2007-07-05 15:09:26 · answer #4 · answered by birdy0127 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the answer is NO!! and the reason is that ...he wants the baby soooo bad I didn't read anywhere that you want a baby ?, but you are willing to have one just because he wants one ...I don't think so , your not ready just yet to have a baby (you know I am right) so if you both love each other as much as you say you do ....then do the right thing and wait !
2007-07-05 15:09:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like the first poster said, get some money. How do you expect to raise a child? Sure, you want one, but it's not that easy. How are you going to take care of it? Unless your families are rich, you have no idea how much it costs to have a child. Start putting some money away. Don't make your own parents take care of the kid.
2007-07-05 15:08:00 · answer #6 · answered by Scorpio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Finish school, get a job, get a house, develop a stable life the child can be born into, and then get married. Then have a baby.
2007-07-05 15:10:52 · answer #7 · answered by IndiHippi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having a child is the biggest decision you will make in your entire life. That child will be your responsibility for the next 18 years. You will have to feed and cloth the child. Are you ready for that responsibility? Also, have you thought about what you will do if your "sperm donor" leaves you?
2007-07-05 15:50:10 · answer #8 · answered by tuls 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so you're going to make another stupid mistake??
He only wants it to tie you down and keep you connected to him. Boys who want their women to have babies are NOT mature!
What about what your baby wants? She/he wants a crib, medical treatment, clothing, food, etc
Stop being selfish and stupid. Sorry to be so blunt.
2007-07-05 15:10:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seriously get settled in a house and a job then look at it ---- you will find its a LOT easier doing that than going off before you are ready financially and emotionally
2007-07-05 15:06:38 · answer #10 · answered by Waterdragon 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋