My exboyfriend and I dated for 3 years and then broke up because we disagreed on some issues and his mother didnt like me. We still keep in contact and he says I'm still his best friend. He doesnt know if we will ever get back together, but he says he misses me and loves me. What should I do? Move on?
2007-07-05 15:01:53 · 15 answers · asked by blondiechickadee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if he don't want be with you...then don't let him in for the night.
it gets weird, he'l just call by say hi try in get in your pants cause the history makes you easier than going and finding someone new
you end up having only the sex and nothing else. no accountability. aint good for ya
2007-07-05 15:09:20 · answer #1 · answered by woodtigernz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the circumstances in your relationship were too much deal with back then, has anything really changed? Of course he still loves you--when two people who have been dating for 3 years break up, it doesn't mean that they don't care about one another any longer, it just means that things happened and it wasn't the right time for that relationship.
If you feel now that you can overcome the things you disagreed on before and that you can get over his Mom not liking you, then I'd say go for it, but go out as friends first and slowly work your way to dating him again. If your disagreements ended up in fights, I'd say agree to disagree and let it go.
2007-07-05 15:06:12 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I went through the same situation .... right down to the mother part. It is a big mistake to wait for him or anything similar to that. Of course he still loves you, you were together for 3 years. Both of you still haven't moved on. So do NOT get back together.
He still loves you, but he is not IN love with you.
Move on........ give yourself a chance for something better. Remember things didn't work out the first, what makes you think things will be better the second time.
Sounds like you needed to hear this.
Good Luck
2007-07-05 15:14:27 · answer #3 · answered by MsCuRvy0 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he isn't willing to work out the issues and get past his mother than you need to do what is right for you. And find a guy who can really be there for you.
2007-07-05 15:05:18 · answer #4 · answered by prettyblueeyes101010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah move on. You agreed to disagree. You need to part ways and move on with your life. There are other men out there that need lovin.
2007-07-05 15:06:28 · answer #5 · answered by C007 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wel da question here really is......
"DO U LIKE HIM STIL?"
if u dont wel den move on and keep him as friend
but if u do like him n he says he loves u de maybe
ders stil a chance of u guys geting back together all
u need is time!!
GOOD LUCK!!!!
2007-07-05 15:06:18 · answer #6 · answered by krazy&sweet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON!!!!! there will always be attachment but just remmeber that you broke up for a REASON and you're going to find a better guy. he had his chance..........your ship has sailed, sister!
2007-07-05 15:05:18 · answer #7 · answered by beetee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It might b obcession however u write the word and that could get ugly so you need to push him away as far as u could
2007-07-05 15:06:03 · answer #8 · answered by juanatjtorres 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
can you work out your differences with him? i'm sure he still loves you.(3 years is a long time)
2007-07-05 15:07:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what i did, move on. seriously. except my ex girl is really annoying.
2007-07-05 15:05:46 · answer #10 · answered by Will 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋